Homeschooling Teens & Preteens
You don’t have to wait if you want to homeschool for the remainder of the school year. Because it’s high school they would lose any spring semester credit but you could make this up with online classes now or community college classes later - there are many options. For details about how to go from a ‘regular school’ to a private homeschool mid year look at the HSC (homeschool association of CA) website. They even have a phone line if you want someone to talk you through it.
Best of luck!
Have you thought of homeschooling? My daughter did this and had no issues with college acceptances, etc. It is not “odd” any more. In fact, she was able to focus on her passions and became advanced (colleges like that, if that’s a concern). There are many ways to socialize - theatre, music, sports, volunteering. There are online courses and colleges will take high schoolers as special students. IMO, high school is a waste for many young people (it didn’t even exist until the 1920’s). We did homeschool in Maryland. We just had to find out state requirements. Sure Cali is the same.
Archived Q&A and Reviews
- Exploring homeschooling for 7th grader
- Homeschool or right school for gifted girl
- Co-op with other parents homeschooling teens?
- Where can homeschooled 13-y-o meet other kids?
- Homeschooling Options for 8th Grader
- Homeschooling my 15 year old
- Homeschooling/unschooling 15-year-old
- New to Berkeley, homeschooling 12 yr old boy
- Home school to high school transition
- Looking for info about homeschooling our 7th grader
- Oak Meadow Homeschool Program
- Homeschooling Group for 11 y/o Girl?
Can anyone share their knowledge or experience with K12.com online school? We are exploring online options or potentially homeschooling for a 7th grader - public school is not working out socially (too much bullying and violence) and private is simply not an option.
I do not have experience with K12.com, but since you're considering home schooling, do you know about Berkeley Independent Study (BIS)? A BUSD K-12 alternative, BIS offers an assisted home schooling program for K-8 students. http://www.berkeleyschools.net/schools/independent-study/
In the Home School program, parents/guardians accompany students to weekly 90-minute meetings with teachers. Assignments follow Common Core standards and BUSD's assessment calendar, while accommodating students' interests and abilities. BIS provides instructional materials, art and garden classes, as well as tutoring. Parents/guardians act as home teachers for all of the K-8 lessons. They need to be available to supervise their child's studies at home for 20-25 hours per week. For some students, this program is an excellent alternative to the regular classroom and home teachers can engage in a collaborative approach to learning for their children. Kamala
We are in the process of looking for a school (middle school) for our daughter who is gifted with a learning disability. The learning disability was completely overlooked by the private school she attends in Berkeley. For that as well as other reasons we are looking for a school that will really get her as a learner: be able to reach the extremely bright kid while accommodating her issues. She is very sensitive and her self esteem has really suffered so our ideal school would have a great social emotional component. We live in Oakland in a not so good school area but are willing to drive for the right place. Another option we are willing to consider is homeschool. Is there a homeschool group in the area that would be a good fit? We are considering pulling her from school for the rest of this year to focus on remediation as the homework load she is getting from school seems like too much to combine with the remediation. I don't think she would qualify for assistance in a public school setting as she is able to keep up. anon
We were in a similar situation with our son - gifted with learning disabilities and not happy in school. Last spring, we pulled him from his private school. We settled on a hybrid for schooling - part time homeschool and part time in a great ''micro-school'' called One Room.
One Room is based in Oakland and the teacher, Jade Rivera, specializes in teaching gifted kids. Her school runs three days a week (you can select 1-3 days) and has just a handful of kids aged 10-12. She focuses on social-emotional development and provides a choice-based curriculum with a lot of project-based work. She provides a wonderfully supportive, warm environment and yet is firm and keeps kids on track to meet their goals. The school is housed at Kids N' Dance in the Laurel District where there is a gym room and the chance for after school programs.
Jade has a blog that talks about her philosophy and has a tab that talks about One Room. http://jadeannrivera.com/
I'm interested in forming a coop with other parents/teachers to home school. Does anyone have any advice or information on this subject. GLM
The best way to find people for co-ops is through homeschool groups like Home Grown Kids and Alameda Oakland Home Learners. If your child might be interested in Science Olympiad we have a team he or she could join. We meet once/week. http://www.soinc.org/
I have a lot of homeschool co-op experience. I have 14 and 13 year olds whom I homeschool. Susan R.
Hi, We are homeschooling our 13 year old son for the first time this year and would like to hear from others about how to address the need for socialization at this age. I'd like to find a way for him to meet kids and make lasting friendships. Any suggestions BPN? Thanks Boring mom:-)
Hi there Boring Mom, There is a thriving, vibrant, homeschool community in the Bay Area. Since you did not mention any religious affiliation I will assume that you are looking for secular, inclusive, homeschool groups; of which there a number in this area. I can speak mostly of Homegrown Kids, since I founded the group in 2001, when my son was two. It's an eclectic group of home educators. We have a lot of 11-14 year old boys, some 13 and 14 year old girls and a larger group of 10 -12 year old girls, plus all ages on down to about two. Those of us with teens place a lot of our focus on teen activities and have been organizing events that include other local groups. I started a Yahoo Group for this purpose. I will email you my resource list. Below is a list of some local groups.
Homegrown Kids (HGK): www.homegrownkids.org
Bay Area Homeschool Outings for Teen (BAHoOTs) My new Yahoo Group http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BAHoOTS
San Francisco Bay Area Unschoolers (SFBUN) Yahoo Group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SFBUN
Alameda Oakland Homelearners (AOHL): http://www.aohl.net/
Tri-Valley explorers (TVE): http://www.trivalleyexplorers.com/ Marianne
We're looking for homeschooling options including groups, classes, or even one or two other children for our 8th grade daughter. We're especially interested in group teaching and exchanges for math, science, language (Spanish). We can do English/Grammar/Literature and History. Can you let us know what may be available in the East Bay (Alameda or Contra Costa Counties)? We're also interested in recommendations for any math or science classes/labs that may be available for 8th graders to sign up for. linda
There a quite a few options for homeschooling in the area, in a variety of ways. Your best bet is to start contacting local homeschooling groups like Homegrown Kids or Alameda-Oakland Home Learners and getting to know other homeschoolers. For math and science, check out Quantum Camp in Berkeley. Lawerence Hall of Science and the Exploratorium also run homeschool classes. Good luck and welcome to the wonderful adventure that is homeschooling! sam
I am interested in homeschooling my teenage son, who is 15 and has some school anxiety issues. I am interested in any advice or recommendations. For example, are there any charter schools in Alameda County that take homeschooled teens? Has anyone used tutors or started their own school? Has anyone tried online schools? We live in Berkeley. anon
hi - You can homeschool through Berkeley Unified School District Independent Study program. I know of a few good experiences with this. Student sees Indep Studies Program teacher once a week I think. And teacher can modify workload etc to accommodate outside activities. anon
There are a growing number of homeschooling teens and plenty of resources for your son. My son is using and liking Berkeley High's Independent Study program, but a lot of families either homeschool on their own or use the two homeschooling charter schools, FAME http://www.famecharter.org/FAME-IS.html, and Connecting Waters http://www.connectingwaters.org/. Also, a lot of homeschoolers take their math and science with QuantumCamp in downtown Berkeley, and outdoor education with Trackers or starting in the fall with the Yerba Buena Institute http://yerbabuenainstitute.org/.
A good email list to be on is High School Without Borders. We are a group of families with homeschooled teens and we help each other set up social events, classes of interest and events, and we also share ideas and resources. This summer we will have game days, swim days, computer days, hiking days and possibly a Shakespeare class and movie night, so there is a lot for your son to plug into. It's a good place to ask about online resources or other homeschooling questions you might have. Feel free to contact me offlist if you're interested. Jennifer
BHS Independent Studies Program may be a solution for your family. We discovered it as an alternative for our child to achieve a high school diploma after having experience similar to yours. It's one-on-one weekly academic learning meetings, you help your child track their assignments, and they have on-site mentors as well who help track progress. It might be similar to homeschooling. The kids are welcome to participate in BHS team sports as long as GPA is good. You have to really stay involved, their department also processes homeschooling. The only thing I felt was missing was academic advisor-which is a function of the principal. Set an info. meeting up before the end of this school year as they are not there over the summer. Good luck to you! Anon
I need more info about starting to homeschool/unschool a 15yr old who has stopped attending his public HS two months ago. His reasons are pretty vague. We have had various recommendation from professionals (psychological testing, residential schools, tough love). I've read about homeschooling, researched a few bay area groups. How does one begin? What should the expectations be? How many high school aged kids are there in the area that homeschool/unschool? determined mom
Homeschooling is fine, and there are resources in this area. But you really, really need to know why he hasn't been going to school. Is he being threatened? Is he seriously depressed and doesn't think it's worth the effort? Does he have a substance problem? Is this an ominous sign of new-onset schizophrenia? What about his frustration with a learning problem he doesn't understand? Whatever the answer, it's unlikely to be identified just by homeschooling. Get professionals involved. concerned
My son was in a similar situation last year. He is now thriving at San Francisco Flex Academy near Union Square in San Francisco. It is FREE charter school that works with students at their own pace, through online courses complemented by teachers. The students are required to be there every day, so there is a social life. Their homework is usually done by the time they leave school at 3 p.m. I encourage you to call and visit the school. http://www.k12.com/sfflex/
There aren't a ton of homeschooled teens in the East Bay but I think it will be a growing group in the next year or two. My son is 14 and we've always homeschooled. He connects with other teens in TrackersBay Scout Team Marine, QuantumCamp, and activities set up by High School Without Borders. In the fall a new homeschooling charter school (K-12, but really focused on high school) will be opening with a learning center in downtown Berkeley.
We don't unschool, but there is an unschooling group called San Francisco Bay Unschoolers Network (SFBUN) and they have some teens. Feel free to contact me if it would be helpful to you. Jennifer
We are moving to Berkeley from Marin. We have a 12 yr old son who we have begun homeschooling (fall 2010). He went to several public schools in Marin K-6, but was often under-challenged academically. He is very creative w/ interests in theater, D, math and writing. Since beginning the homeschool adventure we've found it to be very isolating. In Marin ''park days'' were geared more towards younger kids and he has felt out-of-place randomly showing up at parks and trying to make friends. We are trying to figure out the best path to take once we get settled in the east bay. He is enrolled at Berkeley rep but, I would love to hear any ideas about social stuff for artistic-type boys this age. We would like to stick with homeschooling if we can, but might have to consider alternatives. MMG
There are a ton of 11-13 year old homeschooled boys in and around Berkeley. Check out Home Grown Kids or the Berkeley annex of Hickman Charter School. Hickman contracts with CalShakes every year to put on a Shakespeare play, so there must be some theatrically-interested kids in the mix. Also, in addition to Berkeley Rep, Julia Morgan theater might also have a youth program. Jennifer
I don't have any first hand experience with homeschooling but if you have to consider the alternatives I hope you consider one of the many fine schools available in Berkeley (and area) that are excellent for drama, the arts and such. As for public schools, our son goes to MLK Middle School, and loves it. He is in advanced math, having skipped 7th grade math completely. He did this by passing the 7th grade year-end test, that all 6th grade students were administered in June. He is also artistic, and loves the cooking and gardening options at King. There is drama, dance, percussion, band, art, computers, orchestra and chorus, to name a few. There are also writing, journalism and other creative literature options. Our son attended a small private school for six years prior to King, and we thought he'd have a hard time adjusting. But it's been fabulous. He's found 3-4 boys that share his interests and aptitudes, and he studies, plays and does sports with these pals. It's everything we wanted for him. Parent of 7th grader in BUSD
Finding good social activities for your home schooled teen is a pretty big challenge. Your son's interests match the interests of many of the particants in my after school and summer program. Additionally, students in our program often form lasting friendships with each other.
For the last 21 years, the Roleplay Workshop has been providing fun, safe, and supportive programs for youth ages 10 to 18. We use Abantey, a role playing game very similar to D, to teach life skills in a creative setting, promoting self esteem, problem solving, and social skills. Participants work together to solve dilemmas using logic and common sense, while learning math, sciences and ethics along the way.
The program is ultimately about teaching young adults personal responsibility. Our school year programs include after school programs (Monday - Friday, 3:30 - 6:00 pm), weekend programs (Saturdays, 12 - 5 pm), school holiday programs (9 am to 5 pm) and special event programs. Enrollment opens on September 27, 2010. After school programs begin on October 4, 2010. School Holiday programming is available for most public and private school holidays. Contact: Becky Thomas Program Location: 4014 Piedmont Ave.; Oakland Ca Mailing address: 925 39th St.; Oakland, CA. 94608-3860 Phone: 510.654.3582 Email: mail [at] roleplay-workshop.com Web: www.roleplay-workshop.com Becky Thomas, Director
If your son is interested in D, Itsyourmove on Telegraph ave has kids D on weekends which my son loves! Most of the boys are in the age range of about 12 to 16ish I think. At least one boy that goes there is homeschooled. You can call them at 547-4386 and their site is itsyourmovegames.com. Their schedule vary, but its often 12:30-3:30 on Sundays or Saturdays. The DM Will is fantastic with amazing imagination. happy mom from Oakland
There are many, many homeschoolers in this area. Here are two listings of support groups: http://www.homefires.com/support/ and http://homeschooling.gomilpitas.com/weblinks/support.htm. For those homeschooling gifted kids and teens, there is San Francisco Bay Area Gifted Homeschoolers, http://sfbaghs.org. For the math interest, there is a Berkeley math circle, http://mathcircle.berkeley.edu/, and for the theater interest, Berkeley Rep, where he's enrolled, is a great place to be. I've been homeschooling my 13yo daughter for 8+ years and her theater/music connections are fulfilled within the larger community, not specifically within the homeschooling community. Good luck! Jennifer
There are several options for you in this area, charter schools, support groups, unschoolers, etc. There is a homeschool craft fair coming up, and you may wish to attend and meet many kids and parents and talk to people. Please email me for details. tp
As a science center offering an array of programs well attended by homeschoolers, QuantumCamp can get you in touch with active homeschool families very quickly. Contact us anytime. Michael
American friends have been sailing in Mexico and places south for several years, and their son, just turning 16, would like to enter a Bay Area high school. Because of his unusual education he's more than proficient in some subjects and probably behind in others. He's also spanish- english bilingual. Any ideas how to get him assessed for proper grade placement? Any ideas about high schools/programs (public or private) that would appreciate and support his self-directed in- depth knowledge of computers (he's been the consulting computer tech for all the computer owners in their marina) and other sciences?
Greetings, I would check out Maybeck High School in Berkeley. They are a a small private school with a lot of small group learning experiences. The school culture is one of acceptance. I could see a child as you described needing support in this sort of setting. Ask to speak to Trevor, he is in admissions. Good Luck! anon
My wife and I are looking for any good information, contacts, and experiences reguarding Homeschooling. We plan to begin with our son (7th grade) immediatly and need any help we can get.
I wrote directly to the family who inquired about homeschooling, but also wanted to post information here. There is a homeschooling support group for every city in the Bay Area. One is Alameda Oakland Homelearners, which meets every Thursday afternoon from 12 to 4 at parks alternating between Alameda and Oakland. We also organize occasional classes and field trips. Anyone interested in homeschooling is welcome at our park days. We have kids of all ages. Our website: http://aohl.net/ A good website for people interested in homeschooling is this one: http://hsc.org/ chaos/ I am always available to answer questions or provide help. Jennifer
A great place to learn about different options and such for homeschooling is at Mothering.commune: http://www.mothering.com/discussions/forumdisplay.php?f=50 there you can read about what other people are doing, what materials to use, etc. It is a great community! Also, search yahoo groups--there are tons of homeschooling groups for all different styles and degrees of learning at home. Good luck and have fun! crunchymama
Hi Dave, In addition to moderating the Marketplace newsletter, I am a homeschooling mom. My kids are younger than yours (they are 6 and 8), so I don't know if I can answer your questions related to older kids and homeschooling. However, I'd like to help you if I can. Feel free to e-mail.
The Homeschooling Association of California has a very informative website. They have one section devoted to new homeschoolers: http://www.hsc.org/chaos/
There is no homeschooling law in California. The California Education Code states: ''[A]ll children between the ages of 6 and 18 must attend a public full-time day school unless otherwise exempted.'' ('48200 )
Homeschooling families in California comply with the compulsory attendance law in one of five ways:
* They establish a private school in their home ('48222 exemption). * They enroll their children in a private school that offers an independent study course ('48222 exemption). * They hold, or employ a private tutor holding, a California teaching credential for the grades and subjects being taught ('48224 exemption). * They enroll their children in a public school that offers independent study (public school). * They enroll their children in a public charter school that offers independent study, distance learning, or a homeschool program (public school).
For socialization, there are several groups in the Berkeley-Oakland-Richmond area to choose from. Homegrown Kids tends to have younger kids (up to about 8 or 9). Alameda-Oakland Home Learners (AOHL) has both younger and older kids, and Family Village tends to have older kids. This is, of course, a generalization. I would recommend you try a few groups and find one you like.
This is another great resource: http://homeschooling.gomilpitas.com/
I am a member of a homeschooling e-list, Home-Ed: http://www.twobar.com/mailman/listinfo/home-ed There are many e-lists devoted to homeschooling, some of which are associated with different homeschool organizations and some that are independent. Your task is to find groups you like :-)
Books: The First Year of Homeschooling Your Child: Your Complete Guide to Getting Off to the Right Start by Linda Dobson Home Learning Year by Year: How to Design a Homeschool Curriculum from Preschool Through High School by Rebecca Rupp The Well-Trained Mind: A Guide to Classical Education at Home, Revised and Updated Edition by Susan Wise Bauer, Jessie Wise I think some of these are available at the Berkeley Library. Good luck! Laurel
Hi David, I see that you have had some helpful responses to your post already. Here\x92s one more. I am a volunteer for the Homeschool Association of California, (HSC.org). I offer phone and email support to families in West Contra Costa County, and previously for Alameda County. For specific information regarding homeschooling teens, contact Wes Beach at (831) 462-5867. You can read more information about Wes on the HSC website at: http://www.hsc.org/professionals/homebasedhigh.php. I will send a detailed resource list directly to your private email address. Anyone else who needs some questions answered; some homeschool support, and/or would like me to send them an extensive list of homeschool resources, both local and state- wide, please email me at hsinfo [at] sbcglobal.net. Marianne
Re: Troubled daughter has stopped going to school (Jan 2002)
For the parent looking for alternative to High School. We enrolled in a Homeschool program called Oak Meadow . We want a well structure program and this one is excellent. You choose your classes with their help and advise, and receive the books and planned lessons on the mail all at once. You can choose to do undependably or with them. They also offer an online school. The curriculum is the same with the difference that the child has one teacher for each subject and has to send his or hers homework every other day via email. It cost considerably more but to us is worthwhile to have the structure, advise and guidance. The children receive grades and credits for all the classes. The enrolled student has access to their library a nd their students chat room, besides being able to work on line with other students from different locations. You can find out about the school (which in California is considered a private school) on their internet site, oak meadow.com, where you can sample the lessons. Denise G.
We have 2 daughters, ages 9 and 11. They currently go to a Catholic school, and we are realizing that their current path is not at all what we envision for them. It is really important to us that we raise girls who are not only excellent students (they are), but strong and aware that the world extends beyond Limited Too and Webkinz! Our oldest is in 5th grade,a great kid but a little naive socially, and mucking through the mire of nasty girls who tear each other apart at any opportunity. What we want is to explore home-schooling her, meeting up with other home schooled kids, and supplementing what she is learning with travel to other, less fortunate, but amazing places on our planet. At the same time, we would like to have her enter high school more than well prepared for the academics ahead, as her choice of college is totally wide open. Is there any like-minded group in the Berkeley/Oakland/Lamorinda/Concord area that we can collaborate with? It is so important to us that our girls learn to be strong women who are part of the SOLUTION, not tearing other women apart in this crazy, keep-up-with-the-Joneses society. Why do we do this to each other???!!! Your input is greatly appreciated! Refusing to Play that Game ~
I am part of the wonderful homeschooling community in East Bay, and there are a lot of resources and options available for those interested in this educational path-- check out Homegrownkids.org online for a lot of information and links to other websites. My contact information is listed there, if you want a live person to talk to. Katrina
Homeschooling groups in the area include Alameda Oakland Home Learners http://www.aohl.net/ Home Grown Kids http://www.homegrownkids.org/ and Family Village http://familyvillagehomeschoolers.blogspot.com/
All three are welcoming and friendly groups. Family Village and HGK meet together at Codornices Park once/month, so if you try that day you will meet members of both groups (see their websites). Although you are welcome to just come to the park, it seems to work better for newcomers if they contact the group and let someone know they are coming. People will look out for you and make sure to greet you if they are expecting you.
Alameda Oakland Home Learners is a somewhat larger group than Home Grown Kids with more preteens/teens. HGK tends to younger kids in regular attendance. However, my experience has been that if you join a group and stick with it, kids your kids' age will show up in not too long.
I hope we see you at the park! s
My daughter (who will be 11 in September) and I are also looking for homeschooling groups, and we would love to talk with you. She is completing 5th grade this year in public school (Madera) in El Cerrito. We are going to homeschool in the Fall. Her younger sister will attend public school (1st grade), but will participate in some of our special projects and travel and outings, as well. lori