Martial Arts for Teens & Preteens

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  • Hi BPN, my 15-year-old has recently shown some interest in trying a martial arts class. He doesn't like Zoom classes, so we're hoping for in-person. (He's vaccinated and will mask up.) Hard to tell if some of the local martial arts places are still having classes, but if so, an ideal fit would be: LGBTQ+ friendly, good w/ teens who have no experience. Even better if some other students are his age. He is open-minded regarding the type of martial arts. Close to Berkeley is a plus. Thank you!

    My BHS student attends in-person classes at the US Shaolin Kung Fu studio in Oakland Chinatown - short walk to Lake Merritt BART station. The two coaches are great and meet each students where they are. There is a huge range of skills and ages. My son has been there since he was five, but he can be in class with young adults who are training for their first belt level. I think the first trial class is free. Bonus: he gets PE credit for his Kung fu classes. 

    I'd do some pretty thorough research to see if they're adhering to proper protocols for COVID. I don't know how one would do that with a martial arts class, but he'll likely be in pretty close contact with others during the class so it's something to consider. Alternately, you may want to look at private lessons so that he's only interacting with the instructor. It can be pricey, but it might be the best option right now if you're on the cautious side. 

    My daughter, 14YO, goes to Hanabi Judo in Albany. Sensei Dan is very supportive of teens. If I remember correctly, beginner teens start off with little ones in beginners class, but much sooner than little kids, he will put you in the higher level, if you put in the time and effort to learn. My daughter started later than most kids there, but Sensei Dan put my daughter on fast track to get her black belt, and gave her a job as an assistant to the little kids’ class! They learn discipline, respect, and leadership. Everyone there has been really supportive. My daughter used to be really shy, but Hanabi studio really helped her with her confidence, even though she is one of the oldest kids in the class. Currently, they are in person with masks on.

  • Hi All,

    My teenage daughter is showing interest in wanting to learn jiu jitsu. 

    Hoping someone can provide a personal recommendation for an academy they like. 

    Thank you!

    My husband and son are members at Ralph Gracie Jiu Jitsu in Berkeley. I think it's a great academy, and a supportive environment for kids and teens. They have been pretty much closed throughout the pandemic, with some Zoom workouts and a few outdoor workouts when things were a bit more open.  

  • We recently moved to Berkeley.  My 11-year old was attending a martial arts class called Kar-Do-Jitsu Ryu Karate before we moved and would like to find something similar in Berkeley or nearby.  The instructor would give classes where the children learned various techniques and katas (sp?).  He would also have sparring sessions where the students could practice their moves on each other in a controlled way, wearing gloves and headgear, etc.  Can anyone recommend a similar class, preferably with a sparring component (she really liked that aspect)?  Thanks! 

    You might try the Shotokan Karate Institute. They are located near the freeway in Albany/Richmond (easy to get to). It is a very traditional dojo. My son was there from 4th to 12th grade.

    East Bay Seido, on Bonita Avenue near downtown Berkeley, has classes like that, although full-on sparring isn’t allowed until a student is a green belt for safety reasons. If your daughter is willing to be a little patient, though, the instruction is excellent.

    Both of my daughters attended the children’s and teens classes from six years old on, and have recently “graduated” to the adult program (at 16 years old).

    One huge bonus of taking classes at East Bay Seido from my girls’ point of view is that if you live in Berkeley and are in the public schools, the dojo has a relationship with Berkeley High; students who are taking classes at EBS can waive their  high school PE requirements.

    We do Kuk Sool Won - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aC3fMvbc8qY

    Kuk Sool Won is a comprehensive martial arts system that encompasses many of the other martial arts you have heard about like Tae Kwon Do, Akido, Judo, etc.   Sparring is a part of KSW from the start, simply google Kuk Sool Won sparring to see photos. 

    There are dojangs all over, including one in Berkeley, however, we go to the one in San Francisco where it used to be headquartered & many of the people who originally worked with the Grand Master are still practicing, but the headquarters moved to Texas because they wanted more space to practice with traditional weapons like various swords, spears, rope, bow & arrow, horses, etc...there are 24 different traditional Royal Court weapons within the tradition of KSW as well as sparring.  Also it includes meditation, breathing, etc. 

    Good Luck!

  • Can anyone recommend a martial arts class or style for a preteen boy who does not have previous experience?  Seeking an encouraging and affirming environment in the Berkeley/Albany/el Cerrito area.  Thanks for any ideas!  

    I highly recommend Aikido Shusekai in Berkeley. I and both of our children are students there, and it's been wonderful - the kids range in age from 7 to 12, and they do a superb job of working with each other, training in a focused way, and having fun. I train with the kids myself on Thursdays just because they bring so much new depth to my own practice, and it's been one of the most powerful bonding experiences I've had with them. Previous experience is not required in any way; several of the kids joined in September with no martial arts experience to speak of, and they're doing great. http://aikiarts.com/

    Hanabi Judo in Albany at San Pablo/Solano. My son began there at 14 with no previous experience and easily transitioned into the community. He started going 3x a week and now, at 16, happily goes 5x a week and attends the tournaments. It has worked out really well and this was after a few fails.

    I highly recommend Hanabi Judo in Albany. They are very family oriented and excellent with kids. For parents they have “parents night out” and summer camp for the kids. 

    Hanabi Judo and Rohai Dojo are both good, with Rohai being a little 'softer' for encouraging.
    But the way to do it is try several. They'll all let your child participate in a beginner class.

    Both my son and daughter have been learning karate at Rohai Dojo (https://rohaidojo.com/) for several months and they both love it. 

    My daughter used to go to a dojo which had a very different vibe (less friendly and accepting-- she eventually quit) and was initially reluctant to join her brother, but she has been totally won over by the kindness of the instructors to students of all levels/ages as well as the welcoming attitude of the other students. Everyone progresses at their own rate and it doesn't feel competitive, which is a relief to my kids. 

    East Bay Seido Karate, on Bonita Avenue near downtown Berkeley, runs classes specifically for 9-15 year olds. My teenage daughters have been studying at that dojo since they were 5 years old, but beginners are always welcome, and the current cohort of kids is really great - supportive, respectful, and encouraging of each other. I don’t know if you live in Berkeley, but if your son sticks with it and attends Berkeley High, he would be able to earn PE credit through his training at East Bay Seido.

    Studio Naga in Oakland @ Emeryville border.  Took my twin girls there @ 11 with no previous experience and one still training today at a sister school in Boston 15 years later.  Studio Naga has caring and knowledgeable staff, encourages "broken mirror" style of training and is a true art as the classes actively work on leadership and personal growth while learning the physical aspects of the art.

    There are 5 classes a week for your family to choose from to fit with your schedule.  And speaking of family, family training is encouraged.  I started with my kids and continue to train.  It taught me to listen, interact and support my kids in a bigger way than I thought possible.

    Studio Naga, 5850 San Pablo Ave, Oakland 94608

    StudioNaga.com

    Info [at] StudioNaga.com

    510.652.6242

  • My 13 year-old son has shown interest in learning a martial art (maybe Tai chi or Aikido? something else?) but loses interest at the thought of being in a class with much younger kids also beginning which is what he'd face starting at many martial arts studios in the area. He'd enjoy learning basics and getting oriented about martial arts from an older teenager who has studied martial arts for a while and would like to earn some money helping to introduce my son to the practice.

    There is another option if you don't find the teenage tutor - Han Martial Arts in Oakland, CA (off Mountain Blvd in Montclair District) has an evening "Adult Class" on Mon, Tues, Th, Fri and Sat morning, that starts around age 13. My son had the same feeling about being in a class with "little kids" but he started in the Adult Class and is testing for his red belt (the one before black!) this week. Here is the link: http://www.hanmartialarts.com/classes-1/ I can highly recommend Han Martial Arts - the instructors are first-class, personable and inspiring and then try to get to know the students as individuals. They are having a Martial Arts Festival Saturday Dec 9th, 2017 at Montara Middle School that he might enjoy. 

    There are a few things that you may want know before you persue this avenue for learning martial arts. First and foremost in order to teach a student must be given permission by the master of their studio and must teach under their supervision. It is not considered appropriate to “teach”outside the studio and anything taught in this manner would probably not be fully correct. Furthermore, if your son then joined a studio class they would still begin at the basic level as anything they learn outside the studio would not count towards their promotion. I would also say the premise of martial arts is humility and the ability to put aside feelings of comparison and competition especialky as a new student. Your son should be encouraged to move forward with his learning in a reputable studio and to put aside his self judgements or judgements of others. In our studio there are Black Belts as young as 11 and as old as 75 and beginners from age 5 to 50. Age is irrelevant. 

  • Jiu-Jitsu for teenage girl

    May 29, 2017

    I'm looking for a Jiu-Jitsu gym for my 14-year-old daughter. She's been doing mixed martial arts for years and loves grappling. I'd like to find a Jiu-Jitsu gym in the Berkeley area where there are other teens, especially girls, working out and the coaching is positive. Female teachers would be a great plus!

    You need to check out Coach Lily Pagle at SBG on San Pablo near Gilman.  I think it would be a perfect fit for your daughter.  Lots of teen girls participate and they host women's nights on occasion.   Coach Lily has a black belt and she is also a lovely person.  

    My son is 13, and has been going to Suigetsukan for 5 years. Sensei Gina is awesome and there are several teen girls there. It is unfortunately on 1st and International in Oakland but it is a small cooperative and we love the supportive environment so we make the treck from Berkeley, often carpooling. Cheers!

My son (12) and daughter (9) both study karate at Karatedo Shinyokai on Fairmount in El Cerrito. It is a wonderful dojo, they have kids of all ages as well as a separate teen class for ages 12+. Sensei Mark is wonderful with the kids, and there is a strong tradition of the advanced students assisting in teaching the more junior students which has allows my son to really develop as a leader. If you go to the dojo during the year you can also attend summer camp, which has lots of fun activities such as weapons, calligraphy, and sushi-making. The style of Karate is gōjū-ryū, a rather traditional Okinawan style with hard and soft techniques. Both my kids (who are quite different) love it!

We have a Shaolin monk come every Monday after school to teach at Strawberry Creek Park in Berkeley. It's amazing! Our 11-year-old son and 9-year-old daughter both love it. After some training period where they had to do something hard for a while, they are loving the newfound strength and power they're developing.

PM me & I'll send you the phone number for our coordinator

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Tween exercise (Sep 1, 2018)

My two daughters were the same. I Ernie’s them at Terry’s wonderful Kuong Nu martial arts studio in Emeryville. It was great esp. for the older one.

Archived Q&A and Reviews


Martial Arts for Unathletic, Anxious 12YO Boy

June 2012

My 12YO son is significantly over-weight, inactive, unathletic and suffers from anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and anger issues. I'd like to find a physical activity/practice for him that will give him exercise, but also work on mindfulness, calming and building self-esteem. He would be overwhelmed by anything too physically demanding or competitive. I'm thinking a martial arts practice focusing on mindfulness or yoga classes would benefit him. Would appreciate any suggestions for these activities, or any other classes/groups you think might be helpful. Thanks very much in advance! Worried Mom


I'm not sure where you are located, but I highly recommend Hernandez Martial Arts in Union City. This is the only Martial Arts school for children that I have found that has taken the time and resources to develop a curriculum that is child based. The owners have been in business for 30 years and over the years have changed to focus of their teaching from how adults are taught to how to teach MA to children. They worked w/a child psychologist to develop the best program to meet children's needs while teaching Mixed Martial Arts. They focus on ''Common Sense Before Self-Defense'' Strategies while the friendly instructors develop students from the ''Inside Out'' through instilling Character and Values enabling students to do Better in School, Behave Better at Home and Attain the skills necessary to be Successful in Life. Call (510) 487-3790 or visit us at www.hernandezkarate.com for more information. Re: Yoga, I do yoga w/my kids from an awesome DVD which is demonstrated by teen/tweens and are 30-45 mins long. It is called Shanti Generation Yoga skills for Youth Peacemakers. I bought it on amazon.com. We give it 5 stars. Teaches inner peace (w/o referring to religion), flexibility in an encouraging, calming manner. Good luck! anon


I recommend Berkeley Martial Arts on Sacramento, http://www.berkeleymartialarts.com, 540-5425. Besides learning martial arts the kids learn self discipline, respect, and self confidence. Master Thomas Brewer is very inclusive and promotes community. My son has been attending classes for over a year and looks forward to it every week. First class is free so come try it out. Hope to see you there. Mom to boys


I think Kuk Sool Won (Korean Martial Arts) in Berkeley would be perfect for your son. He doesn't have to be athletic. The teacher, Master Brewer, has 2 sons of his own, and is extremely patient, while still being a good disciplinarian. All the classes are mixed ages, so there might be 6 year olds, 12 year olds, and adults all in the same class. Everyone is respected. It's near the corner of Sacramento & Dwight, near the Homemade Cafe. heidilee


I think your son might get a lot out of the martial arts classes at Kuk Sool Won (Sacramento near Dwight, in Berkeley). Kuk Sool Won is similar to karate, but it's not just about self-defense. The classes at Kuk Sool Won are not at all competitive (until the higher levels, when students can choose to compete) and although it is somewhat physically demanding, the beginner classes are pretty accessible. The teacher, Master Thomas Brewer, is great, and has just the right combination of firmness and humor to keep the kids in line without scaring them. There is definitely some focus on calming and mindfulness (for example, the ability to stay still and listen without wiggling). My favorite thing about the classes is that they are for all ages, so I can attend with my whole family (though kids or adults can and do attend without other family members). When there is some exercise involving partners, people partner with other class members roughly their size. Martial arts family


Martial arts for 16-year-old beginner

Sept 2010

Looking for a martial arts program for my 16 year old daughter. She's a beginner but doesn't want to be a a class with young kids. She's not a physical person (her description) and feels very awkward in sports but wants to try a martial arts to build strength and improve coordination. Cindy


Terri Giamartino is a female martial arts teacher with her own dojo and school on San Pablo and 48th. It is very popular with teens (as well as adults and young kids). Seems like more teen girls than boys. Entry level teens work with adults. My kids and I have been here for 7 years. I highly recommend it. skillsforsafeliving.com


In Alameda, there is a great (sincerely dedicated and fun) martial arts studio that offers specialized classes just for teens and adults as well as children. Here is the link to their well done website: http://www.usakungfustudio.com/ parent of two


She may enjoy Capoeira, a Brazilian Martial Art. United Capoeira Association in Berkeley has excellent, world renowned teachers. They are located on the corner of San Pablo Ave/Hearst in Berkeley. Intro classes are usually at 5:00. It is a very organic martial art that includes music, singing, acrobatics, etc. She would probably be with the beginning adults. The community is welcoming and often has other events (movie nights, etc.) My son started when he was 5, and is almost 14 now. He loves it and has gained so much from the community. google UCA Berkeley (I don't have the exact website). Good Luck Capoeira mom


Martial arts to help son be more assertive

August 2010

I am looking for a martial arts program for my son primarily to help him be assertive (not aggressive) with his peers. He's entering a new Middle School this Fall. I would like to take a class with him (if possible). Any suggestions? Concerned Parent


Berkeley Martial Arts, also know as Berkeley Kuk Sool Won is great and would be great for your son. I've been practicing there for over 11 years, and my son attended for several years. It is a very good program for kids, which teaches good values including respect, self discipline, self esteem, persistence, etc. The master instructor, Thomas Brewer, has a great reputation with kids and adults. Check out the reviews on Yelp. I believe you can get a free lesson to try it out. Kuk Sool is a great martial art with great variety that makes it fun and interesting. http://www.yelp.com/biz/berkeley-martial-arts-berkeley#query:berkeley%20kuk%20sool http://www.berkeleymartialarts.com/ Rocky


Aikido is a martial art where the goal is to end the conflict without harm to the defender or the attacker. The founder was specifically looking for a nonviolent path. Watching experts 'spar' is like watching water -- it's beautiful. Not sure where you are but East Bay Aikido near Park St on Leimert in Oakland is a lovely dojo, great leadership and community. Aikido parent


You might consider Studio Naga, on San Pablo avenue. It's open to all ages, and one of their goals is assertiveness for kids (the theme of their summer camp this past June was 'Camp Courage' and my son got a very practical lesson in what to do when a peer upset him!) Karen


Martial Arts/Karate for 16-year-old girl

April 2010

Would appreciate any recommendations for Martial Arts or Karate classes for a 16yr old girl. She took some classes when she was young but didn't pursue it. She really needs more physical workouts combined with something that's fun and group activities to meet others. Any ideas or places for classes would be great. teen mom


My daughter studies Cuong Nhu at Hua Sen Dojo in Emeryville and enjoys it very much. There are lots of women instructors and a large cohort of teen girls in the upper (brown/black stripe) belts. My daughter has been lovingly mentored by these now-high-school-aged girls for years and has developed a lot of confidence from watching them, being taught by them, encouraged by them, etc.

Most of the teens are in the upper belts, but there are ''family classes'' where students who are above a certain age and/or belt can attend (no little kids!). For more info, check them out on the web: skillsforsafeliving.com --Mom of little ninja


We have truly appreciated Hoa Sen Dojo on San Pablo at 48th St (Emeryville) for 7 years. There is a moderately large, dedicated group of sweet teens. The sensei is a fabulous woman, well-loved by all. Drop by to watch the teens/adults Mondays or Thurs at 6:30. www.skillsforsafeliving.com BTW, I do it too, now.


Check out krav maga, an approach to self-defense/fitness that is a little different from the better known ''martial arts''. Start by perusing the website, kravmagaberkeley.com. There are lots of different classes and different skill levels. Then you could call and arrange for your daughter to attend a trial class or two to see if she's interested. Classes are held 7 days/week. The instructors and the students are friendly. My son has been training for 3 years and loves it. anon


Check out Studio Naga in Oakland/Emeryville border. The studio's commitment goes beyond fitness and self defense ~ the instructors follow the owner's vision of building confidence and community. Classes are fun, challenging and available with the opportunity to train up to 5 times a week.

There is a great mix of male & female instructors ranging in age from 15 - 50ish. The teens are great and come from Oakland, Berkeley & Albany to train. They are smiling when class is over ~ their parents are smiling when they pick them up...good stuff!

All students are mentored by black belts so training becomes a more personal experience. My daughter has been training for 8 years, was mentored by owner & head instructor Louise Rafkin, and is now mentoring others.

Studio Naga 5850 San Pablo Avenue 94608 510.652.6242 www.StudioNaga.com
Cinthia


2007 - 2009 Recommendations


Seeking Kenpo Karate for 13-year-old

Nov 2007

My 13-year-old son has been attending a karate dojo for the past three years, and enjoys it. I have become increasingly turned off by the head teacher's teaching methods; he yells a lot, talks to the students about ''kicking ass'' and tells them to practice until they ''don't suck.'' I understand that karate is a martial art and that it's tough, but I would like to find an atmosphere that's a little more zen and a little less Army boot camp. My son is not afraid to work hard -- he's in excellent shape and enjoys his accomplishments, but I would like to see martial arts taught and modeled in a more positive manner. Does anyone have recommendations for a kenpo karate dojo in South Berkeley or North Oakland? peaceful mom


My son has been with West Wind Kung Fu-Karate in Berkeley for about 17 years and is now Head Instructor at the Berkeley Dojo (University at Sacramento). I read your post to him and he said there is no way anyone at West Wind would teach that way. We first chose that school, when he was 6 years old, because they stressed the true ''art'' in martial arts, and they incorporate the history and philosophy of the discipline in their teaching, besides being top notch in martial arts skills. As one other student told me, ''They are like the Harvard of martial arts.'' You can go on a tour of the school and discuss taking introductory lessons. Drop in and ask for Mr. Shah. Or email me if you have more questions Barbara


Martial arts class for teen girls?

Sept 2007

I am looking for a safe class, preferably in the Elmwood/Berkeley area, for learning any of the martial arts for a 14 year old girl. We are hosting her from Germany, she is primarily interested in it as strength training, not necessarily defense. Any recommendations are greatly appreciated. Thank you. yvonne


West Wind Karate at 1551 University is an excellent place for women to learn martial arts. There are many strong, amazing women in the system as inspiration and their training is top notch. My son, ''Mr. Shah,'' is the head instructor and he can set you up for a tour and answer all your questions. Drop by. Barbara


Studio Naga has a fabulous program for kids of all ages (adults too)It is woman owned and run. Its phenomenally supportive and everyone can work at their own pace. And it is a wonderful community of people. It is in Emeryville on San Pablo. www.studionaga.com 510.652.6242 Kyree


2006 & Earlier


Class for a 14-year-old with engaging instructor

Oct 2002

My 14-year-old son wants to begin a martial art, and what's most important is a dynamic and engaging instructor. We're looking for someone who's a really good model/leader for teen boys. Any suggestions for a top-notch teacher? Lynn


My 7th-grade son has gone to Kuk Sool (Sacramento at Dwight, Berkeley) for about 1 1/2 years and now is a brown belt in this rather aerobic Korean-style karate discipline. Thomas Brewer (known by his students as ''Sir'') expects excellence from his students - expecting more as the kids advance in expertise (it will take as long for my son to go from brown to black belt as it took for him to reach brown) and stresses values/discipline as well as the physical aspects of karate. He also has been a good resource for our family as an ''extra'' adult to talk to our son about discipline, responsibility, etc. on a one on one basis. At 14, your son may also be eligible to study with the ''adult class'' which is quite mixed with teens. From what I see, its great for teens to be learning with adults, who must themselves be respectful to ''Sir'' and the discipline of karate. Karen


We found an amazing martial arts teacher at the TaeKwonDo Academy in Alameda. Dan teaches a class just for teens. He teaches them respect, life skills, concentration, many valuable skills. His focus in teaching martial arts is to enhance the students self-esteem and respect for self and others. I am so impressed with him. My son, who is not athletic, has learned so much about how to do TaeKwonDo. Even more valuable are the life lessons he is learning. I spoke with several martial arts teachers before finding Dan. He is everything I was looking for in a teacher. Good Luck, Patti


Class for a 14-year-old that meets frequently

April 2002

I am looking for a martial arts class for my 14 year old. Previously, he's gone to the Y kids' karate class, which is MWF 5-6pm. I was wondering if anyone had personal recommendations for other places around the neighbourhood that might have more classes per week; I used to go to a dojo that had classes 6 days. I've checked the web site, but there's little mention of frequency of classes. Must be sympathetic teaching style for a teenager and within walking distance of Albany High. Maybe I'd go again too if it would work for a very rusty middle aged mom! Dana


Hello, I can heartily recommend Golden Lion martial arts on San Pablo near Marin. They teach tai chi and kung fu, primarily the latter to their younger students. I took tai chi there for over 2 years. The head instructor, Sifu David Dong, is a wonderful guy, great with kids, and is excpetionally talented. Andrew


my daughter takes karate at the Northern California Martial Arts Association in Albany. the karate for kids (6 and under) class is 2-3 days a week. i believe the beginning Adults (14 and up) have classes 3 times a week plus a Saturday mixed rank class. they are located on the Albany/El Cerrito border next to El Cerrito Plaza but will be moving a little further north in El Cerrito (still very close). carrie s.