Family therapy recommendation
Can anyone recommend extremely skilled therapists for family therapy? We are a family of 4. The siblings have what feels to us to be an unusually difficult relationship (though there are good times, I’d say 80-90% of interactions are negative.) They are now in their teens and the interactions continue to devolve quickly and I believe are very damaging. I am concerned about how these patterns will play out in adulthood, both with each other and in future close relationships. One child is likely to be possibly open to family therapy, even if initially resistant, and at least try to have it be useful. Unfortunately I believe that the other child will not be, or will make it extremely difficult. (Past attempts at different kinds of therapy have shown this to be true as well as our experience-this is a child who is very closed off.) All 4 of us have, obviously, contributed to these patterns that started in toddlerhood. I believe we could use therapy as a family in addition to working individually sometimes. I think we’d need someone especially skilled - it will not be easy (and may be impossible?) to break through and make changes to these long-term negative patterns. If you have any really excellent recommendations, we’d be so appreciative.