Driving Lessons for Teens

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  • Hi,

    I have a 17-year-old daughter who has her driver's permit and is ready for driver's training. She has high functioning autism and is fearful about learning to drive. I would appreciate any recommendations for a good driving school with a patient instructor. 

    Thanks,

    Christina

    We loved bubble of safety for our teen w ASD!

    https://www.bubbleofsafety.com/
    also there’s this great link for some more ASD-specific driving training tips 

    https://www.bubbleofsafety.com/

    my 18 yo’s ASD turned out to be a super-power for his driving skills, which has been an enormous confidence booster. Good luck to your teen. 

  • My sixteen year old is ready to do driver training. Just looking for good training, nothing fancy, in or near Berkeley. Any recommendations?

    I highly recommend Bubble of Safety Driving School owned by Jacqueline Regev. My 16 y/o son took lessons from her 1 year ago and really enjoyed the experience, passed drivers test on first try and seems to be a very good driver. I was very happy to support a local business. Would use her again without any reservations. Good luck to you and your driver to be!

  • I want my 18 yo to get their  license for many reason but the big one is just in case a job opportunity/posting  comes along and they ask for one. They may never use it for work or maybe once and a while, but the idea is that they can at least be considered for the position. I took drivers education in high school but today most schools don’t offer it.  Looking  for a school that will help with rules of the road and driving. No on-line class . Extremely patient with those who need extra hand holding. Suggestions and recommendations welcomed. 
    Mom seeking patient drivers ed instructor 

    https://www.bubbleofsafetydrivingschool.com

    The best you can find. 

    Fun knowledgeable and very(!) patient. Highly recommended! 

    You will probably get a lot of recommendations for Berkeley Driving School; both of my daughters really liked Donald, and Louie was also helpful. By the way, although as an 18-year old your kid isn't required to do the preliminary first step of an on-line course, the abbreviated version for adults can provide useful basic information to prepare them for the written test.

  • Driving instructor for 19yo

    Oct 20, 2020

    Wondering if anyone has a recommendation for a driving instructor for my 19yo daughter. She didn't do driver's training and has just practiced some with us. She's hoping to gain confidence with her skills especially parking before applying for her license. Thanks!

    Yes!!!! Jacqueline Regev! https://www.bubbleofsafetydrivingschool.com/

    She is delightful and would be great.

    My 20-year-old son is in a similar position. I plan to schedule time with an instructor on DriversEd.com. I used this outfit for my daughter, although she was a minor when she got her license. She had two different instructors. Both were no-nonsense and focused on building skills required to pass the driving test on the first attempt. We got the smallest package and it was worth the cost.

    I highly recommend Jacqueline Regev, owner of https://www.bubbleofsafetydrivingschool.com/. She is fantastic with student drivers of all ages; I personally can speak to her wonderful personal skills with teens (and their parents).

  • My son got his learner's permit in March, and would like to start practicing his driving with a parent, but the learner's permit isn't valid until you have your first lesson with a professional instructor, and I'm worried that might not be an "essential service."  Does anyone know whether it is currently legal to take such a lesson in Contra Costa or Alameda Counties?  (Also, the DMV says you can take your driving test only after you have "held" your learner's permit for 6 months.  I hope that means 6 months from the date of issue, and not 6 months from the date of the first professional lesson!  Does anyone know?)  Thank you!

    My daughter just got her license in February. I just checked the website for the driving school we used, Coastline Academy, and they are closed. This makes sense, not safe to have two random people in a car right next to each other, even with masks. I believe that the 6 months is from the date the permit was issued. Also, when you make the behind the wheel appointment you have to call the DMV to do it and be prepared to be on hold for a long time. Once you get through you will find that the first available appointment for any office in the bay area will be at least 3 months, probably more now since they are not doing behind the wheel tests right now so there will be a lot of people wanting appointments when they open it up again. So call as soon as they start taking appointments again. It really is quite an ordeal to get a license these days, not at all what it was like when we did it. Good luck!

  • I am looking for additional training for my teen who has had 3 collisions in 3 months of licensed driving. Teen Driver has ADHD, but three collisions to date have been slow-speed collisions not related to speeding, distraction or recklessness (but damaging and expensive nonetheless) with no music, phone, or passengers in the car. Rather the accidents seem to stem from inability to perceive how much space the car occupies. and how close it is to other cars and stationary objects. Driving a smaller car is clearly part of a solution, but I wonder if anyone has found specialized driving instruction for a teen who is cautious, concentrating, and following rules, but is still just a bad driver. I don't think the basic drivers ed type instruction, which teen has already had, fits the bill.  I'm hoping that the BPN community can offer some hope of future driving! 

    The teenSmart program through Adept Driver is EXCELLENT. it’s on line, interactive and focuses on better decision making. There are activities you can do with your child as well. It’s helped my daughter notice things she wasn’t seeing before. It’s been a very worth while program for us and I believe she’s learned a lot more and is clearly applying it. We heard of it from our car insurance company. 

    Good luck. 

    I would think about getting vision testing done for depth perception. Especially if one eye works better than the other. A developmental optometrist or a vision therapist is the best way to go about this. 

    After our son had two fender-benders while driving in traffic, we enrolled him in this one-day Safe Teen Driver Training course at the raceway in Sonoma: https://simracewaydrivingschool.com/programs-experiences/safe-driver-tr…. The course includes having teens drive through obstacle courses, and stop suddenly while driving at high speeds. Our son not only loved it and gained a lot of understanding about how to safely handle a car and either avoid or prevent accidents, he kept urging his dad and me to take the course, too. The course is pricey--but not as pricey as the potential damage and harm a poor teen driver can do. 

    My daughter has ADD and I would not let her drive unless she was taking her medication. The accident rate for kids who drive and don’t take their medication is 100%. Obviously if you kid doesn’t take meds this is not an option. This many accidents in such a short amount of time is concerning. Maybe driving needs to wait for a bit. 

    The Alameda County Sheriff's office offers a defensive driving class to civilians.  Most dates are filled up now, but still register for each date and you will be put on a waiting list.  It is $300, but is the same defensive driving training Police Officers receive.  Here is a link with more information:

    https://www.sheriffacademy.com/section.php?view=evoc

  • Can anyone recommend a good driving instructor for a conscientious but somewhat nervous new teen driver? I've looked at yelp reviews and they are all a little suspicious (like two separate "driving schools" with no websites and each having exactly 20 reviews, supposedly all 5-star). I saw some reviews here, but they are all old. Berkeley Driving School got some good reviews, but a) the online course is frankly awful. It's cheaper than many, and it did contain some instruction, but a lot of it was poorly presented or even useless. And a friend who contacted them never got a confirmation from the instructor they had scheduled and he didn't show up (and I now see that they've removed their online scheduling). I had thought we'd just go with them, but now I'm suspicious. They had good reviews too.

    I saw Ride On Driving School, All in the Family Driving School (those two may be related, I'm not sure), Ann's Driving school (which has more reviews, so maybe it's harder to fake, but it's also much pricier). I don't know how much those first two charge.

    Do instructors need some sort of certification that I need to check? I'm operating under the impression that I need 2 hrs of behind the wheel training before she's allowed to drive with us. Does the instructor hand you a certificate of completion?

    I'm looking for both instructor recommendations and advice for getting through this part of it. I'd like her to get some good instruction, not just to pass DMV muster, but to be a good driver. I was thinking I might want to schedule up to 6 hrs with an instructor. I have a girl, so if you are recommending a man, please tell me if you had a girl or boy for a student. I don't want to expose her to creepy men.

    I know many of you have already been down this road (haha). Please share your wisdom!

    (just an FYI, I learned from a friend in Alaska that teens get their learner permit at 14, and they need two years of practice before they get their licenses!)

    Thanks,

    Janet 

    We used Berkeley Driving School for on-the-road driver training (We used a different web site for the online material.), mainly because it was convenient.  There was online sign up for lots of time slots, so it was easy to schedule.  We just used whoever was available. My son says the instructors were fine.  They showed up when they were supposed to.  The Berkeley Driving School instructors completed the paperwork both after the first 2-hour lesson, and when my son finished all the required lessons.  My son did learn to drive pretty well, though he spent many more hours driving with me than with the instructor.  I don't know if the instructors were men or women; we didn't care.

    We used driversed.com for the written instruction and it was sufficient for our kids to pass the written test and get their permits.  It is required that they do one lesson with a driving instructor before they can drive with their parents.  After the lesson, the instructor stamps and signs their learning permit, so there is no extra piece of paper to lose.  It is also required to do 6 hours of driving instruction (3 2-hour lessons), although you can certainly do more than that if desired.

    You, as the parents, though, will be doing the bulk of the instruction, as you are required to drive with her for 40 daytime hours and 10 nighttime hours before she can take the driving test.

    We used Berkeley Driving School for 5 beginning drivers and had zero problems.  I just looked and they still have online scheduling.  At the bottom of the picture, above the Facebook symbol, there is a button that says “Schedule a 2-Hour Driving Lesson”.  That will take you to the online scheduling site.  They have both male and female instructors and you can choose which you want.  We have boys and girls and they all used cross-gender instructors and were fine.  The men they drove with were not creepy and were competent instructors, but you don’t have to use them.  My most recent driver (just got her license in late December) liked Laurie “Dee Dee” Bennett the most of the people she had as instructors.  She provided helpful feedback and had a nice manner.  Just so you are aware, Dee Fong Putthongvilai is a man.

    We found it useful to have one lesson at the beginning, one lesson about half way through the 50 hours, and one lesson right before they were ready to take the test.  The instructors do a mock test with you (using the DMV guidelines) and let you know what you need to work on.

    Big fan of Bill's Defensive Driving in Pinole (http://billsdefensivedrivingschool.com/).  Bill himself was the instructor for my daughter in 2016.  Their policy is to conduct the required 6 hours of training WITH you (the parent) riding along, which taught me a ton of things & made me a better driver and a better coach for my daughter. (This also solves the creepiness question because you're right there -- Bill is totally not creepy!)

    Before I heard about Bill's, my older daughter went through the training with Safestway in Walnut Creek (http://safestwayds.net/) in 2014.  As with Bill's, the instructor comes to wherever the student is and picks them up.  Her instructor was Carlos and she really appreciated his patience and calmness.  

    Note: in both cases I remember being frustrated trying to reach them by email. The phone worked a lot better.

    You should obviously use Carlos, who is a gentle soul, calm and a wonderful teacher who charges almost half of any other teacher. My son, of course, passed with flying colors his first driving test. Carlos will also take your child to test, do all the paper work etc.

    Carlos' number is : 510 816 8034

Archived Q&A and Reviews

 


Need inexpensive licensed instructor for daughter

May 2012

We have already taught our daughter to drive but need to fulfill the state requirement of 6 hours driving time with a licensed instructor in order for her to receive the license. We are looking for the CHEAPEST option. Any suggestions?


My son had a wonderful experience learning to drive with Carlos, as did an older friend who needed refresher courses before a driving test for a US license. Both learners were on the anxious, overly cautious side. Carlos picked up my son at our house with a fully equipped instruction car, was patient and confidence inspiring, and my son passed the driving test on his first attempt. He charges $70 per two hour session and can provide the official certification of instructional hours needed by the DMV. His phone number is 510 816 8034. satisfied customer


We had a good experience with Berkeley Driving School.


Driving school for teen daughter

July 2011

I want my teenage daughter to get a good drivers education and driving lessons. Does anyone have a recommendation for a good driving school and/or instructor? Thank you! Anxious Mom


My daughter did a wonderful course through Bill's Wild Parrot Defensive Driving School. I think they have changed their name, as I Googled them. I think they are now Bill's Defensive Driving School. It was started by a former CHP officer. The instructor really put my daughter at ease, and I'll use them again when the time comes for my son to learn. You can follow this link: http://www.billsdefensivedrivingschool.com/services-about-us.html Sarah


Neli Gancheva, of Driving Without Borders, taught both of my kids to drive. Neli is a good teacher and reasonably priced. Both of my kids passed the driving test on the first try, and both are careful drivers. Neli's phone is 925-370-7852. anon


My neighbor is a retired CHP officer and now runs Bay Area Driving School: http://www.bayareadriving.com For Oakland or Berkeley their number is (510) 430-8770. Request Henry or Barbara Ramirez. My son took the driver's training course from Henry, but I think they offer driver's education as well.

Another option for an online driver's education course: http://oaklandtech.com/staff/blog/2009/02/03/online-driver-education-for-ot-students I don't think you need to be a student at Oakland Tech to take it. teen driver mom


I just finished teaching our daughter to drive. We used Bay Area Driving School in Hayward for the required 3 hour behind the wheel professional driving school DMV requirement. They were fine for about $300 for 3 one hour lessons with free pickup and drop off at home/school. Much more important were the 50 hours plus of time I devoted to teaching her what I have learned during 45 years of driving. I spent a few hours in Golden Gate Fields parking lot teaching her the basics before her first pro lesson and getting her permit. The 50 hours (10 at night) I gave her were critical to her learning to be a safe driver. No class could ever teach her all I did. No matter how you go about teaching your child focus on doing those 50 hours of training yourself and make sure lots of time is at high speed on freeways. Keep a written log each time they drive and insist they do at least the 50 hours minimum. I saw a huge improvement each hour we logged! She and I dealt with several drunk drivers, all kinds of weather, an engine failure at 65 mph on the freeway twice, getting towed by AAA, when to know to pull off when falling asleep, dealing with aggressive drivers, how to change a flat tire, check air and oil, a collision-her fault when a soda spilled in a turn and she took her eyes off the road for a second, where to park safely, how to be aware of surroundings walking to and from car, and much more. With the license they no longer have you with them to protect them from the world so there is a lot more at stake than just operating a car and driving-like personal safety in parking lots. Your time with your child NOW is the most precious gift you can give to assure they will stay alive on the road. No class or teacher can compare at any price IMO. Each time I give her the keys I am relieved to know she takes with her all I have learned in 45 years of life and I don't have to wait up until she returns safely. I gave it my very best. rest assured


Teen driving safety programs

May 2011

We have two new drivers in our family and I'm looking for quality programs to supplement their behind-the-wheel driver's training time, which - combined with additional time with us - is the minimum necessary to qualify for a license. We heard that AAA had something of this sort on-line but I haven't been able to find it. We know that Bob Bondurante teaches a safety course in Sonoma, but don't know any of the particulars. I am really open to suggestion and - of course - just want my kids to be the best drivers they can be. New hands on the wheel


Hi, Here is a website that teaches teens how to drive under different weather conditions. I am going to sign up my 17 yr old for a class in the summer. His friends took it and loved it - they may do it again. http://alamedacountysheriff.org/_rtc2009/classes/evoc/evocDetail.php?CIVILIAN-EVOC-SAFETY-UPDATE-18 Linda


Stick shift driving training for 17 y.o. with license

Jan 2011

My son is a reliable driver, and has had the better part of a year's experience driving. He's 17 and got his license fairly recently but has had a lot of practice. He's inheriting my husband's manual transmission car, so I'm trying to teach him to drive a stick shift, but I think he'd benefit from a couple of professional lessons. I don't think Safestway does stick shift training any more - does anyone have an alternate recommendation? We live in Oakland. Happy he's driving now


Cities Driving School (based in downtown Oakland) is the only place we found that taught stick shift/ manual transmission driving. Both my teens did their driving training with them: reasonable rates, will come to your house, patient instructor (though heavily accented) who provides written notes for the teen to review after each lesson. citiesdrivingschool.net 510-472-7834 kids need to know stick


Nov 2006

Re: teen driver's trainer?
My daughter and her friend have both learned from Carlos at Marina Driving School, 5515 Foothill Blvd, Oakland, CA 94605. The cost was much less than other schools, I believe it was $30/hr. Carlos is supportive and calm, and even encourages the kids to practice their Spanish with him. I can recommend him highly. His car is a Toyota. 510-816-8034 (phone # updated Aug 2009)
Clara


Aug 2005

We hired SteveMoran of a CHP Driving School to teach our daughter to drive and I believe it was worth every extra penny.

The first lesson was along Grizzly Peak. The second lesson coursed through SF Chinatown and North Beach during a rainy rush hour at dusk and after dark. ''If you don't know where it's broke, you can't fix it,'' Steve said about his choice of route. The third lesson involved a trip across the Bay and over Mt. Tam, to Muir Woods; along very windy roads, as my daughter, according to Steve's analysis, was not looking out ahead far enough.

Steve had several well articulated routines and techniques to teach good driving habits, including a beeper to signal how often the student should be checking mirrors. He himself had plenty of extra mirrors with which to monitor what was going on, and he exhibited superb concentration on the matter at hand. He kept the lessons interesting and exciting to an adventuresome teen, and offered tips about safety, the appropriate uses of defensiveness and assertiveness behind the wheel, and what might disqualify the applicant on the licensing exam.

By the end of the course my daughter had a healthy respect for the power and potential dangers of the car. My husband or I went along for every lesson at our daughter's request. This made us better coaches though sometimes I found the experience nervewracking along the way. She passed her driving test and, except for the matter of a few parking tickets, is a good driver.

Mimi