Do you still have a desire for intimacy?
My brother-in-law in a guy to guy conversation asked me if I still had the desire for intimacy with my wife. He is in his 50s and said he still does but his wife has no interest what so ever. As this is not the kind of question I can ask women at work or church, I thought I would ask here.
BPN women/ladies who have been married to the same guy for many years do you still have a desire to be intimate with your guy? Has your desire increased, decreased or remained the same? If you have lost your desire but your guy has not do you play along? If you have lost the desire for intimacy is there anything your guy can do to get you in the mood?
Or, and this is what’s going through my brother-in-law’s head right now: were you never interested in intimacy and just played along to have kids and raise a family.
Women/ladies, I hope you are open to sharing your feelings and desires about intimacy so “us guys” can understand your feeling about intimacy as our kids get older. This is my post, so going to be selfish here. Just looking for responses from women who are in a long term hetero-marriage with a guy whose children are late teens and older. Feel free to post anonymously. Again I’m looking for your feelings and desires for intimacy, not any of the specifics of when you are intimate.