Warn other parents about nanny I fired?
We were in a nanny share that ended when we fired the nanny after the (host) family went on vacation and care took place at our house. One day she had our daughter in her crib 6 of 9 hours, another day 7 of 8 hours, and the last day 4 of 4.5 hours (with no diaper change). On these days, the (crib) logs showed our daughter (5.5 months) was a mixture of crying and sleeping after prolonged crying. The written logs the nanny captured about each day were inaccurate (noting times she was playing, that they had taken a walk, etc.). The day that we let her go, we installed a camera to observe what she was doing and saw that she put our daughter to bed 5 min after we left telling her/writing in the shared log that "she just woken up 30 min prior" and then proceeded to sleep on the couch and watch TV -- nothing terrible but combined with lying, a confirmation of not the kind of care we want. After 3.5 hr nap/crying, she fed her and put her back down after 20 min. to sleep again. At this point, we went home and confronted her. She admitted to lying in the logs and said my daughter was "happier when she slept more" and that "she knew it was wrong to lie and was sorry". We told the other family what happened and why we were letting her go and they decided to continue care with her. I spoke with the mom who said they would look for another family (to share with this nanny) and I feel conflicted about this. I know we've left her care and that in some aspects, it's none of my business. On the other hand, I feel it important to inform other families about this and her care; I would have wanted to know about an issue like this. This mom and I have a shared mom network and I feel like I should share with other moms but the other part of me thinks I should leave it alone and trust that this nanny will be an honest caregiver with the next family. What would you do?