Tips on finding the right sperm donor
We are a married same-sex couple (two women) looking for a sperm donor who has shared interests with us, is in good health, and hopefully looks a bit like the non-carrying parent. We’d like to get to know the donor, maybe even have a friendship first. We have been very conscious about our decision and preparation; we don’t plan to start trying to conceive until next year. At this time, we'd really like to avoid going the sperm bank route. We know sibling networks are a great source of support to many families, but we each grew up with big bio families who are very different from us.
Has anyone succeeded in finding a donor in the local Berkeley community? How did you connect?