Parent Group for "Failure to Launch" young adults?
Are there any existing parent groups for those with "failure to launch" young adults? My child is 23 (24 soon), out of high school five years, unemployed nearly all of that time (no college or vocational classes either). She gets no spending money and I stopped paying for her cellphone over a year ago. I've taken away the house key and told my child she could no longer live in my house, but she came in while I'm at work (dog door, windows). Short of installing an expensive security system I can't afford and barring my dog from using the dog door, I can't prevent that. I'm at my wits' end, and would like to connect with other parents. I've tried Alanon , but found it completely unsatisfying and very frustrating, largely because of the 12-step model that so closely hews to AA.
Anyone know of anything like this?