Home buyer remorse
We recently bought a home that I felt in my heart I didn't want but after multiple failed bids and the threat of the interest rate hike looming, we got desperate and bid a ridiculous amount. And it still needs renovations. And now it's tearing me and my relationship apart. I can't stop hating it. I keep blaming myself for not listening to my gut/saying no, and can't stop blaming my partner for pressuring us into being so desperate and can't stop being angry with our realtor for making us feel like it could work for us. Now even before I move in I am counting the years until we move out. Please don't judge me - I know I'm fortunate to even buy a house now but I also feel victim of this terrible competitive market and feel gullible and naive working with our realtor. I want to warn others not to fall into the traps I did and I want to ask for perspective/support/advice on how to feel better and not hurt my marriage. Thank you so much.