My mother's latest boyfriend - call him Grandpa?
Hi - my mother has been dating someone for almost a year. She has a history of jumping into relationships quickly and then them ending abruptly. She has him moving in with her - though that is not surprising (she has had 3 other "fiances" though she hasn't gotten remarried since my parents split 30+ years ago). My question is this - she has encouraged my two kids (6 and 7) to call her boyfriend Grandpa. I think it is weird for them to call him "Grandpa" and I worry about how that could impact the kids if they breakup. I also know that my mother will likely be upset if I bring this up to her so I want to make sure my concerns are valid befor likely causing issues. This guys *seems* fine, I just hardly know him and don't like the familiarity of the term "Grandpa" for someone I dont know that well.