Flying alone - can a parent escort an 18 year old to the gate?

My 18 year old child, who has some disabilities, may take a short nonstop flight by herself to visit her aunt.  She's very excited at the idea of the visit, but very worried about negotiating the airport and the flight, especially on our end in Oakland, where the airport is larger than her destination airport.  Are people allowed into airports to escort others these days?  And, if so, who do I contact to get permission?  I could get a letter from her therapist if that would be helpful.  Thanks in advance BPN community!

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How brave of your child to make this trip!

I believe the airline has the ability to issue a gate pass. I was able to get one from United a few years ago when my daughter traveled solo. At the time she was underage, and I needed to pick her up at the gate. I suggest calling the airline your daughter will fly on and ask what they require from you in order to get a gate pass.

Safe travels! I wish your daughter an empowering trip!

I don't think you've been allowed to escort to the gate in several years. What you might want to look into is contacting the airline and asking for their input. When I was young and flew by myself, there were people that worked at the airport that were able to make sure I got where I needed to go. They even let me sit in the lounge while I waited for a connecting flight. 

Yes, you can just go to Check In with her and ask for a Gate Pass. You can even call the airlines ahead of time and explain the situation, that this is due to disabilities. In the future, if you're not around to help she may be able to get a staff person who can help her to the gate.