Therapist for Parent of Autistic Child

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  • Hello, bpn.

    I am looking for a therapist to work with as a neurotypical parent in an autistic household. I feel like I'm missing the mark in being a supportive and loving mother and wife. And like I'm losing my damn mind in all the constant negotiation that is our current family dynamic. I've seen a few different therapists through the years, and after working with people who don't really get it, I would love to find someone who is familiar with neurodiverse couples and families.

    Any ideas?

    I am also seeking not only a ND-affirming therapist, but a therapist who IS neurodivergent, for my 20yo daughter.

    I don’t have any ideas but feel for you.  My daughter has sensory processing disorder and husband undiagnosed spectrum challenges.  I’ve been treated my whole adult life for ADHD, so I don't understand the avoidance of finding tools to function- especially in a group.  I’m following this thread because I’m about to loose my mind as well.  Not sure if this helps but I step into the “constant negotiations” and remind everyone we’re living in a group.  It’s hard to find people who understand- because any one situation seems to make sense… 

    Lyca Sedaka (510) 319-2887 is a wonderful therapist.  She totally gets it - she has ADHD and has been really helpful in the six months I've been seeing her.  She may have a waitlist but it would be worth reaching out. 

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Counselor Needed for 14 year old with symptoms of autism

Nov 2012

We, the parents of a 14-year old boy, need a counselor (psychotherapist) who is familiar with the autism spectrum. Our son has some autism symptoms, executive functioning problems, and a few learning disorders (handwriting and visual motor problems). We would like to have parental counseling as well as some counseling for our son as he transitions into high school. We are looking for someone in the east bay. The ideal person would accept insurance from Health Net Alta Bates or United Behavioral Health. concerned parents


It is worth the trip to San Francisco to see Dr. Robert Root. He is excellent at working with teens with neurological issues. He also will meet with you as part of the appointment. He is very practical and his suggestions are excellent. He coordinated treatment and testing with our son's neuropsychologist. He is with California Pacific Medical Center and his phone number is 415-600-3636. They take insurance. Good lluck. Anon


Support for South Asian family with autistic child

August 2009

I'm looking for a referral for a therapist who works with south asian families in need of support for living with children with autism. Preferably in the south bay, but east bay and/or peninsula is OK.


America's first, and only, center for South Asian special-needs kids happens to be located right here in the Bay Area. Please contact Jeena (jeena.org or (408) 957-0481) and you will find an amazing community. I've known the folks at Jeena for nearly 10 years. Lisa


I would reccommend you contact Dr Naheed Sheikh PhD. She is an excellent therapist who has done a lot of work with individuals and families. Her contact number is 510-759-3351. Sutapa


Support for parent of autistic child

December 2002

My child is moderately autistic, and I need to work through my grief and worry. Does anyone know of a therapist in the N. Berkeley area who is good with parents (and families) of special needs children?


I highly recommend Lucia Milburn, who facilitates several parent groups for families with sp.needs children, and also has a private practice in Berkeley. She will also probably have referrals for you for other groups and/or therapists. Her tel. is 510-540-5138. Tracy


Sharada Thompson in North Berkeley is very sensitive about these issues. She has worked in schools in addition to her work as a therapist and understands many dimensions (practical, emotional, etc.) of the experience of living with these kinds of diagnoses. Dr.Thompson's number is 415-775-0559 Good luck!