Transferring to Berkeley High from Another High School

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Daughter wants to transfer to BHS, but parents don't

April 2005


My 15-year-old daughter is unhappy at her present high school and would like to switch to Berkeley High for her sophomore year. Her father is opposed to her going to BHS. How can I convince her that it is a ''good thing'' to remain at her present school, at least for next year, and then we can discuss it again? anonymous

To the parents who have a daughter wanting to go to BHS as a sophomore next year and is unhappy at her current school: You didn't say why your daughter is unhappy or why it would be a good thing for her to remain at her current school. Why not Berkeley High? Have you visited the school? What are your concerns? Berkeley High has something for everyone. How might you engage your daughter in the process of deciding and taking responsibility for her education? My children have all graduated from Berkeley High. The youngest will graduate from college in May and the others have advanced degrees in law, English and one is working on a PhD in medicine. I would have been just as proud if any one had gone directly into the work world after high school as long as he/she was prepared to work hard, be responsible and contribute to society in positive ways. I would want them to follow their hearts. They are supportive of their parents and each other. They work hard and are caring, loving and sensitive people. Their experiences growing up with an education in the Berkeley public schools, yes, Berkeley High, make them the wonderful adults they are today. Anonymous

I believe BHS is a great school, academically and socially, for students who can handle many choices and mostly make good ones. I would suggest letting your daughter try BHS for her sophmore year to see if it is a good fit. Work with her current school to save her spot in case BHS is not a good fit and she needs to return. Attending BHS as ''an experiment'' in the 10th grade is a better idea than later because there will be more time to recover from bad grades, if that is what happens.
--BHS grad and supporter

Our three kids went to BHS, in the days when the bathrooms were locked, the principals changed every year, and the sports facilities were sub par...but they all are proud of their BHS education. The oldest went to UCD, the second daughter to UCB (and now UCSF med school) and the youngest is currently at USF. They now say that there is nothing that happened (drugs for example) at BHS that those in private school didn't have access to in spades. They say BHS prepared them for the ''real world''. The parent group at BHS was always a fabulous group of smart dedicated individuals, and their kids fun to know.
vicki, bhs parent