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Aging mom at Burning Man wedding. What to wear?
What should I wear to Burning Man? I want to support the spirit of the event, and my family members, who are getting married there. However, I'm an older mom with a stuffy job, and will be sharing a tent with my teenaged son. The wedding organizers' suggestion that ''ladies should be rocking their nipples,'' was perhaps not meant for me. Your thoughts on creative compromise would be so welcome! Not a party pooper. Not ''rocking my nipples.''
Whatever you end up wearing, it's clear you're already rocking an awesome sense of humor. Looks like you'll be meeting crass with class, and that's a good thing. Rock on, Aging Mom, rock on
I think of Burningman ''fashion'' as Mad Max meets the Circus, meets nudists, meets stylized ''tribal''. Apparently your wedding coordinator leans towards the nudist catagory. That said, there is no reason why you can't simply dress (mostly) the way you would to go to any other wedding. Only if you feel like it, this is also an opportunity to be as creative as you like with what you wear - think of it as a wedding costume rather than a traditional outfit you would wear to someone else's wedding. The only caveat is wear something you won't mind throwing away and never wearing again - or that is machine washable. Playa dust does not come off things easily.
On a practical level Burningman gets HOT during the day. Sudden changes in the wind or the weather can bring dusty storms that create white-outs or rain that will turn the playa into sticky cakes of mud that will clump onto your footwear in big chunky globs. A duststorm could leave your hair and clothes coated in a clingy grey-white film that will linger until after you leave. I would suggest a hat or pretty umbrella for keeping the hot sun off you, eye goggles for protecting your eyes during a dust-storm, and a scarf or face mask for clear breathing during a duststorm as part of your outfit, or at least handy in a purse. A camelback backpack that holds a water pouch with extra pockets for storing items is an acceptable part of an outfit on the playa - you could disguise it with a pretty scarf or a filmy shawl if you wanted to. Closed-toed boots or shoes will protect your feet from the alkaline dust. If you're not worried about that, then choose shoes that you like that will also let you ride a bike, walk a ways, or hop on and off a vehicle while it is moving.
You didn't ask, but a sidenote: tents are miserable to camp in at Burningman as they get very hot very soon in the morning and are little ovens all day. If you leave the flaps open to keep them aired out, all of your belongings might be covered in a thick layer of dust when you get back. If you are camping with other wedding members, check around to see if someone will be bringing a shade structure. If not, get one of your own, with rebar and a mallet for hammering the rebar into the ground and keeping your shade structure in place. A carport or shade tent with zipping flaps can make for a comfortable place to cook, hang out, and get dressed up for the wedding that a tent is unlikely to provide.
Hope that helps! best wishes for a dust-free wedding
How about a tanktop or blouse with nipples artistically drawn on? been there once and it was fun
You know - the best policy in my opinion is to just be yourself. I think that's what Burning Man is all about anyway. Not everyone there is showing their nipples and there's a lot to be said for not following the herd. You can enjoy WATCHING the herd, because it's quite a sight. I would find something comfortable to wear, what ever your style is, and just go with it. I think you deserve a lot of respect for simply going. That sounds like quite an adventure - have fun! Another Mom
hahahaha! wow. well, your attitude is just fine. i promise you won't be the only one NOT ''rocking your nipples.'' (in the 10 years i've gone to BM, I've never had the urge to rock mine...) my advice is: don't worry- there is nothing you could wear that would be unacceptable! seriously. that's the nice thing about Burningman; anything goes. so if you feel most comfortable dressing up just the way you would for any wedding, go right ahead. on the other hand, maybe you'll love taking this opportunity to wear something really outrageous and over-the-top. for your own comfort, though, just maybe be prepared for either very hot weather or very cold weather. also, keep in mind that anything you wear will take a beating from the playa dust, so perhaps leave clothing you are truly attached to at home. -keeping MY nipples to myself-
I loved your question. First of all there is no rule that ladies need to let their boobs fly free at Burning Man. I went for five years and kept mine under wraps most the time because I just feel protective of my girls. As for attire, it's very, very dusty out there due to traffic from cars. Vintage full slips make wonderful ''formal'' attire that will let you breathe, and you will look completely apropos to the desert scene. Lighter colors will hide dust well and reflect sunlight. You can skip the panties if you're too hot, or wear a dark contrasting color underneath that everyone can see, if you feel so bold. Buffalo Exchange or any vintage shop on Telegraph should carry such slips. Boots are a great way to top the look off, or sandals if you're too hot. Also, a nice vintage or new sunhat would complete the look. The hat shop on Telegraph is a great resource and they also carry goggles. Add your goggles or a dust mask to the top of your hat and your set! Have a great time and remember the Burning Man founders are in in their 60's now. There is no age limit at Burning Man. Jen
If only there were a Best of the Parents Network your post would have a prominent place Im sure.
I would suggest a sort of Desert Chic, gauzy and flowing. Maybe something with some beading?
Have a great adventure! susannah
What fun! I'm so jealous that you get to go to Burning Man. We had tickets but had to sell them because my husband broke his leg. Burning Man is an excuse to wear things that you've always wanted to wear but couldn't before because of societal expectations. This means different things to different people but to me it means: fake fur, rhinestones, funny hats, animal prints, etc. (but not feather boas because they shed). It's way too hot in the day time and it can get cold at night so most people change their outfits when the sun goes down or throw on a fake fur coat. You also need googles and a bandana/dust mask to protect you from wind storms. And you need a bike to get around. Have fun with your clothes and don't worry too much about it. Jennifer
Its Burning Man...a place to be yourself,fight conformity, don't be part of the crowd, a sheep following the herd, don't bend in to pressure. If you don't want to you don't have to. The person who wrote the ''dress code'' is just saying be free, don't conform, don't wear business dress... Besides, its so frek'n hot and dusty there, you'll end up taking most of your clothes off by 11 anyway without a second thought after seeing your 187th nude person you'll understand how non sexual and natural naked actually is. Old Wise Guy
Your post cracked me up. Why not ''rock your nipples'' using some of these?
Either way, I hope you have a great time. Who doesn't need some extra nipples?
Dear not-a-party-pooper, You will find people of all shapes, sizes and dress/ undress preferences at Burning Man. My own Mom came with me a few years back (she was 59, I was 39) and we had a wonderful time together despite holding back from the ''nipple-rocking''.
For daytime when its hot, think about loose, lightweight cottony fabrics- there's a reason Bedouins wear those great flowing robes! Keep in mind that you might be riding a bike.
Nighttimes can start off warm and end up really cold, which is why so many Burning Man outfits involve faux fur. I often get a base layer of leggings and a turtleneck, and then find fun spangly, colorful layers to put on top from thrift stores. Sequins and gauzy things that glow in blacklight are great. Don't get feathers, they always come loose and end up as litter. Add lots of lights and glowsticks to keep yourself visible to bikers and art car drivers at night.
Above all, have a wonderful time and enjoy the process of creating your costume(s). Saggy Burner
Google Burning Man photos and you will see lots of examples of what people wear there. Keep in mind that the people taking the photos are usually picking out the most interesting-looking attendees to take pictures of. But if you look at the ones wandering around in the background you'll have a better idea. Sounds like fun!
OK for hubby to go to Burning Man by himself?
So my husband wants to go to Burning Man by himself this year. He's never been, but says he just wants ''to get away from routine and responsibilities for a few days.'' We have three children under 8 years, so yes, there's a lot of responsibility at home. So I guess I'm trying to get a feel for what it's like out there...I picture a lot of drugs and sex and mayhem. And I wonder if it's not safe to be there alone? Shouldn't you have someone keeping an eye out for you? Is it appropriate for a 45 year old father of three to be there by himself? Should I worry? Should I worry that it will be too easy and tempting for him, both drugs and sex? He has already said he will bring pot with him (knows where to get it, but hasn't smoked in several years). Am I making any sense? Nervous Wife
Having been to BM once (with my husband) and sending him off for 7 years straight (without me) after that, I have to say I'd be a lot more worried about his physical well being in this sometimes very challenging environment than about the temptations. I'd recommed that he definitely join a camp or at least speak with folks who have been at BM before. You need to prep a lot, take a lot of stuff, and you can end up making many costly and potentially dangerous mistakes if you are completely new to it all.
That is my 2 cents about the physical part. In regards to your trust and your relationship, you might want to talk in advance about what is ok and what is not for both of you. Hopefully, that will make it easier for you to let him go.
And for you, who stays home with the big burden of household and kids, and a husband who won't be that available before the trip because of all the prepping etc, I'd say get yourself some help! I have my mom visiting during this time, and sometimes my mother-in-law in addition. We all enjoy it and it definitely makes my life easier. BM ''grass widow'' and liking it
I was going to write something snarky, but my heart goes out to you too much... honey, BM is a cornucopia of sex, drugs, pseudo-artistic mayhem, general wildness and a whole lot more. Do you know anyone who's ever been? Doesn't sound like you do... That your 45-year old husband/father of three wants to go there (with pot, no less!) is a HUGE RED FLAG that trouble is afoot. Happily married, content men do not put themselves that close to rampant, no-strings-attached sexual opportunity (with pot, no less!) They know full well that they will not be able to control themselves.
And BTW, would it be okay with him if YOU went to BM (with some pot?!) If the answer is yes, you know for sure there is a problem in your marriage. He should care more than that.
Find out what is going on with him that he wants to do this. In some respects, if you say 'sure, go ahead', I think you will soon know what the issue is. So you might just give in to the inevitable.
Personally, I would say he** no and insist on an honest discussion about what is really going on in the marriage. wise married lady
Oh, that's a tough one. I think if it makes you feel really uncomfortable you need to figure out what it is about the idea of ''going to burning man'' that makes you nervous and talk to him about it. I totally feel you on being nervous about your husband being in an environment where anything goes. Especially if he is going to ''escape responsibility''. Maybe there is something bigger under the need that should be looked at. anon but feeling you!
Hi there, I can understand your concerns about Burning Man if you've never been - there's a lot of misinformation about what goes on out there. So the real question is not, ''Do I trust my husband at Burning Man?'' but simply ''Do I trust my husband?'' Because a man can get in trouble anywhere if he wants to
I've gone for the last 13 years, and there's a LOT of cool stuff that has very little to do with sex and drugs (although that's certainly there if you want it). There's even a camp for families named Kidsville, where the kids get rides on art cars! If your husband just wants to check out some art, spend some responsibility-free time, and meet some interesting people, then there's no harm in him going. Maybe he'll enjoy it so much that he'll come back and talk you (and possibly your whole family) into going.
Also, there's the fact that no man wants to be forbidden from doing something. In fact, I've found that if I tell my husband he can't do something he wants to do, he just wants to do it more - kind of like a teenage girl.
For what it's worth, I would be bummed if my husband went to Burning Man without me, but that's because I love being there. In fact, I introduced him to the playa 12 years ago. Dennise
You don't sound odd to be concerned about your husbands sudden need to escape. I would talk to him about your concerns. Maybe he's going through something that he isn't aware of or how to deal with whatever he is feeling. Talk to him. If he doesn't seem to care about your concerns. This would be a red flag. wishing you the best, good luck
I am guessing you are going to get a lot of pro-Burning Man emails, so I thought I'd pipe in for what it's worth. I think you are RIGHT to be concerned about Burning Man, and I'd be unhappy with my husband going alone.
If he needs some time away, why not offer to let him have a guys' weekend doing something fun? Whatever he likes...But Burning Man? I don't know -- the drugs, the sex, the whole vibe would make me nervous... Not a Burning Man Fan
Everybody deserves a vacation. I would let your husband go under the condition that you will get an equivalent something for yourself - a vacation, a class, anything you really want to do. -have fun!
I've been to Burning Man seven times (my husband and I actually met there!), all pre-kiddos. It is not just a drug/sex/craziness fest, though there sex/poly/bondage type-camps. There is also amazing art, crazy jungle-gym installations, delicious food, beautiful and creative people, kids camps etc.
For what it's worth, I think you should look at how much you trust your husband. If you want drugs and sex, you can certainly find them at BM...but you can find them here in the east bay as well. If your husband has substance abuse issues, that is something to take into consideration. If he has been able to use drugs recreationally in the past without a problem, then I wouldn't worry. There are many ''normal'' people who are not high and just like to dress up, have fun, explore, dance, and let loose for the week. There are also high people doing all of the same.
I would not want to go alone to Burning Man (especially without having gone before) simply because one person need A LOT of supplies to make a suitable camp and survive through the week. You need a good, 100 mi/hour wind-worthy shade structure (ones you can buy at REI or Target often aren't sturdy enough) plus lots of food and water. So I would recommend finding an established camp or group of friends to go with. But you should know that it is not dangerous to go alone. There is little, if any, violence there.
I also wouldn't want my husband to go alone simply because I don't want to be responsible for all of the childcare for a week. You may feel differently about this aspect. Also, for your husband to know, Burning Man can be super fun and amazing, but it is often not relaxing in the way that other vacations can be. It is chaotic and loud, there are dust-storms and white-outs. And it is VERY hot during the day. It's an adventure, for sure. good luck with your decision
Mid-life crisis is such a wonderful thing. As a former burner I would say at 45 he'll be viewed as grampa. Though the weed will help him with the nubile young things, tell him if he fools around that he can be assured you'll douse his manhood with lighter fluid and he'll wake up one night when he least expects it with his own ''burning man'' situated between his two big toes!!
Burning man is actually a performance art event which is a life experience and it would be good to make it a family trip even if it will take a few weeks to get out all the dust. from old sage i.e. wiseguy
I didn't see your original post so cannot speak to any personal issues or concerns but wanted to express that BM is many things to many people. I met my husband on the playa 10 yrs ago and we went together again about 5 yrs later. The playa for me is kind of like camp for grownups- it is a place to do lots of freeing kid things like the hokey pokey and bingo and roller skating and sitting on a giant see-saw. It is a place to see amazing art that amazing people have spent so much time and effort on. It is a place to be emotionally open to strangers and feel free in a world that is welcoming and friendly. It is a place to dance and laugh and wonder at the usual and the unusual. I do not do drugs (never have) and I hooked up with my husband when we found ourselves stranded in a dust-storm telling each other our life stories in a way that felt connective, not in Jiffy Lube or Horny Whores or any of the other sex camps.
I go away every year with my college roommates for 5 days. I do it to escape. We escape to a spa or resort, eat at fancy restaurants, lay around on beaches. If my husband said I could not escape b/c he didn't trust that I wasn't going somewhere to pick up men, snort coke, or act like a hooker, I'd be pretty pissed. We all need space at times and I guess you might consider that men sometimes don't have girlfriends/pals like we do, so maybe he is just looking to go to an activity that he thinks sounds neat. I'd talk with him about what interest he has in BM and also about your concerns. I'd also suggest that he look to join a group that you might feel comfortable with. The group you are with can often determine/influence the kind of burn you have-we have gone with friends who are much harder core/old school burners than us-all upper 30s/40s/early 50s. We sit around playing cards, drinking and some smoking. We listen to music, shoot the sh*t and basically do a lot of what we always do camping but in much harder core environmental circumstances and with lots of cool distractions for when people want to take walks ro ride their bikes around.
Anyway-it's not all sex and drugs on the playa and as others have stated, he can find sex and drugs anywhere-he doesn't need to drive all the way to Gerlach to find it. playa camper
I didn't see the original post about your husband wanting to go to Burning Man by himself but... my husband might go by himself as well to B.M., so I can relate. BM doesn't have to be just about sex and drugs; to me it's way more about meeting wonderfully friendly people and seeing some amazing art and just having a fabulous time (I met my husband on the Playa and we went together for a few years after that). And let's admit it - who doesn't want to escape from responsibility once in a while?! Like other people wrote, if you don't trust him about BM, it's more about the general trust that you might not have with him. But if you do trust him - why not have him go? Of course I would suggest ''demanding'' that you take your own vacation after that! former Burner
I think advice about trust in genral is spot on. Burning man is as mellow or crazy as one choses. As a married woman, I went without my husband, with a female friend, and had a wonderful time! I've also gone with my husband and had an equally wonderful time. No heavy drugs or anything scandalous. I have a love/hate relationship w/ BM. There are moments that are so incredible, I can't imagine never experiencing them. Then there are moments when I wondered why I ever decided to go to such a harsh, hot, dusty, awful place. For me, it's sort of like Vegas, any more than 3 nights there, and it's torture.
I HIGHLY recommend going with the Green Tortoise for single or couple travelers who aren't part of a larger, mass organized camp. I actually wouldn't go any other way for a future trip. Tortoise drives you round trip on a comfortable bus, brings all the water and food you'll need, and has an established camp with eating area and shade structure. They will also haul your bike (a MUST for BM-but only take a real beater one). All you need to bring are your personal supplies such as tent, sleeping bag, dust mask, hat, sunscreen, etc. It's a great way to meet others to explore with, and the meals are communal-- everyone takes turns helping. VERY reasonably priced for what you get. It's SO much more relaxing not to have to drive, and you don't get your car filled with playa dust. You can sleep on the ride home. They offer week long trips, and long weekend trips (3 nights I think, which is perfect for first time). You may want to consider getting a sitter and joining him Or, after looking at the Green Tortoise website, he may decide to do a different trip than BM. They offer a lot of great ones!
One thing I do disagree with is kids at burning man. I know a lot of people who do it, but IMO...too hot, too dusty, too many places to get lost surrounded (potentially) by intoxicated people. And the biggest reason--not fun for the parents! The last thing I want to do on vacation is chase my toddler around a hot desert, while he gets gusts of sand blown in his eyes, and I worry about him running off into a bike or art cart. I wouldn't take any child who wasn't old enough to navigate and take care of themselves in a sizeable city (say SF, Vegas or NYC) on their own. Should go to BM at least once!
I read all the advice you got last week and I was surprised that there are really people who think it's all about sex and drugs and that if your husband goes he's bound to do terrible things. If he wanted to do things you didn't approve of, there's more than enough opportunity right here at home.
It seemed all the people who were trashing burning man didn't say if they had been, and all the people who were for it had been. What does that tell you? Personally, I've been a few times and have no plans to return, but it's certainly not because I found myself doing regrettable things there. Either you have integrity, or you don't.
And the replies about him joining a camp that would help him prepare for the experience is great advice, but if he does enough reading he could figure out how to survive on his own. And if he's friendly at all he could easily find people who will help him with the things he forgot to bring. I'd be more worried about the fairness of it, whether you would also get to take a personal vacation.
Last year I went on my own for the first time (previously with camps, but this year I wanted to camp with Hushville so I could sleep) and my hubby was worried about me, because I was pregnant. But he also knew that I was committed to taking the best possible care of myself. While I was there I ate well, went to bed early, and got lots of exercise like I did at home, and everything was fine.
So I guess it's just a long way of saying that if you can trust him at home, you can trust him at burning man. D.C.
I am a 33-year old Mom, and I've been to Burning Man about 7 times in the last 10 years. I've gone with my husband & without him. Our son was conceived there 2 years ago.
Burning Man is an *amazing, amazing* experience & my husband may go without me this year (I'm not ready to leave our son for so long & don't want to take him, either).
None of this is to say you shouldn't have any feelings or concerns - simply that it's up to you & your husband how you want to deal with this. (I also don't think pot is such a big deal. I mean, really.)
Having some very real conversations seems in order. Deciding what agreements you need from him. I really liked another responders idea that you should get a vacation of your choosing, too
Yes, there's a lot of people doing drugs & running around naked, but there is a lot of other experiences to be had, too... I think I'd be more worried about my husband going to Vegas with the boys...
If the two of you decide it will work for him to go, I want to second (or third) the suggestion that he hook up with a camp or other people he knows who are going - it is a harsh environment & a lot of work - he could use the help Good Luck! Burner Mama
Planning to take my 15-month-old to Burning Man
I'm planning on taking my 15 month old to burning man this year. I was wondering if anyone had done this before and what types of advice/precautions you would think helpful with regards to staying hydrated and protecting from dust. Thanks! burningmom
unless you have or are renting an RV I wouldn't do it. Unless you have a large generator to keep the airconditioning going, forget about it. Unless you have exposed you child to loud noises and know that s/he isn't disturbed by it I would not do it. been there, done that
Gee, I would say the advice already in the archives still holds true.
The daytime playa is still quite kid friendly in most respects, but I would never take my pre-verbal daughter along. When your child is a little older, try visiting or living in the Alternative Energy Zone (no generators, just like Hushville) or a Family Camp. There are lots of little Kidsvilles too, if you look for them. But again, I would suggest waiting until your child can communicate better. It is key.
It sounds horrible, but to be utterly honest, the people I know who have taken a very young child along ended up feeling a bit resentful that they had to focus so much on the kid, since they became very demanding on the playa. I think it is like trying to have the best of both worlds, and you might have to leave the playa midweek. A few years later, though, and families can have a ball. I guess the point is that, later on, they can be willing participants instead of being dragged along. Then it gets really fun with all sorts of games and treasure hunts and things (''find me someone wearing big googly eyes on springs, someone on stilts, and an oversize giant animal!'')
Anyway, if you do go, please be patient and focus most on your kid, and be ready to split mid-week if you need. This year I am heading out with my brother, and my wife is staying with the wee one. But we will be in email contact every day, so I may end up splitting midweek too. My wife says she will really miss the playa, but is more comfortable waiting it out until another year.
The playa will always be there, but the needs of the kid have to come first. (and I'm dealing with my fair share of guilt just heading out there....) Anyway, good luck to you! Burning Dad
There's a yahoogroup called Burningmoms for parents (not just moms!) who either take their kids to BMan or have been and are interested in knowing other similarly-minded parents. Recently there has been talk about taking kids and babies to BMan, but there's also lots of talk about parenting-related things other than going to BMan - it's a pretty active, interesting group of people. You can join by going to the YahooGroups home page, and searching for Burningmoms - your membership will need to be approved, but you don't need an invitation to join.
Bringing our 4 year old to Burning Man
We are planning to bring our four-year-old son to Burning Man this year. We would appreciate any comments or suggestions from other parents who have done this.
The Burning Man website has a very helpful guide, too. http://www.burningman.com/preparation/event_survival/kids_at_bm.html christina
Hi: I've been to burning man twice and planning to go this year, and although my 8-year-old is dying to go, there is no way I would take her until she is over 18. Although there are things there that I would love for her to see and experience, there are also many things there that I would not want her exposed to, specifically sex and drugs. It is an amazing adult experience, and IMHO not kid-friendly at all, nor should it have to be. It is also an extremely harsh environment, and very taxing for adults. Plus, having a child along, especially a very young child, would severely limit your experiences on the playa - half the fun is wandering around all night. Its a great place for YOU to be a child again, but too rough for children. feel free to contact me if you want nkfl
My friends and I have a moms' group, now expanded to a parents' group, for Burners called ''Burning Moms.'' (I wouldn't be surprised if someone else from the group answers this post as well.) When and how to bring our kids to BurningMan is a major source of interest and discussion.
I have an 18 month old girl and am not quite ready to take her to the desert. My feeling is that I'm waiting until she's out of diapers and can very clearly and specifically voice her needs- ''I'm thirsty,'' ''I'm not feeling good,'' I'm too hot,'' etc.
You're more than welcome to email me if you're interested in joining this group. There are some parents on it who've already taken their kids to BM or have some experience with kids and BurningMan. In any case, it's a nice community of Burner parents. snowshoe
I brought my then 2 1/2 year old son to Burning Man a few years ago and we had a great time. it was my first burn, so I felt like it was a great introduction to the event for both of us, (and I didn't know what I was missing by not going out at night). We loved the daytime Burning Man vibe -- great artwork, friendly people, visual stimulation everywhere. We were in bed by midnight each night, so the hedonistic party-scene was not really part of his experience. I've been back twice since without him, but at age 5, he's dying to go back, and he may be with me again this year.
We camped with the Family Camp, which is always located very close to Center Camp and adjascent to Hushville(generator-free, so very quiet). It was a great place to be, since we were close to center camp and the esplanade and much of the good artwork. There were other families there (though there have been MANY more, it seems, in the two years since) and it was nice to see kids and know there was a place where they could hang out. We didn't hang out there much, since we had friends in other places, but it was a welcoming group and a good place to come home too.
Probably the most important thing I had on the playa was my jogging stroller (which STILL has playa-dust in the cracks). Depending on the size of your child, I would bring a jogger or maybe a burley or an alley cat for the back of your bike. The stroller was great, as it had a sunshade for the daytime, and my guy could nap wherever we were whenever he wanted -- he even slept through the Burn in the stroller!
Another invaluable thing was the little potty that I had. Getting up and peeing in the night or in the morning was much easier with a little potty next to the car -- not to mention pooping.
For sleeping, we have a mini-van, and we took the rear seat out (using for a playa-sofa) and slept in the back. This way I didn't have to worry about him making noise in the morning or noise waking him at night.
Food and water was pretty simple -- he had a sippy cup with him always and ate what we brought with us. He was very verbal by that time, so had no trouble expressing his needs.
He carried a squirt bottle, and sprayed people with water as his playa gift. Sometimes he blew bubbles. It was amazing to see the amount of attention a child gets on the playa -- instant interaction everywhere we went. People kept asking if he was real or part of my costume!! I could say more, but I'll leave it at this. If you want more information, feel free to contact me. Tara
I'll be going to BurningMan this year for the 9th time. Although I obviously love it, I'd be the first to say that BurningMan isn't for everybody. Anybody who goes should have some idea what it's all about. There are a lot of adults who should not go there.
That said, I've observed kids of various ages there, and I've come to believe that very little kids are probably more bother there than they're worth, and they probably don't get anything out of Burningman. Older kids, maybe from 5-12, think it's great because they can do and see all kinds of fun things, and maybe ride their bikes all around. The kids who seem to have the least amount of fun are teenagers with their parents, because all they see are a bunch of stupid adults acting silly.
There is virtually nothing that a kid could see or do there during the day that is more harmful than what they could do or see in Berkeley during the day. Night time is a slightly different story but a kid would have to try real hard to find something truly threatening, especially if they go to bed at a normal time (for a kid). Jon