Moving to the Sierra Foothills Area

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  • Hi parents,

    I'd love your advice as my family considers (the very sad possibility of) leaving Berkeley.

    We have a young toddler and hope to grow our family within the next 1-2 years. My husband and I are both self-employed and are exploring moving further out of the Bay Area to ease the financial pressure we feel here. We're considering Sonoma County and the sierra foothills - Nevada/Placer/El Dorado counties, places like Auburn, Grass Valley/Nevada City, Placerville. The research process is daunting so I'd love your help on exploring some of the questions on my mind...

    - Which towns/cities are great to live in? Some things that sound 'great' to me incl. other young families, access to healthy food and culture, high quality childcare, and lower cost of living. I assume there are trees and good nature in all these areas so I'm excluding that criteria for now :)

    - How do I get a sense of the approximate cost of living discount relative to Berkeley/SF Bay Area? Other than accommodation, what other categories can I expect a reduced cost of living? Behind this question is a wondering if we'll experience enough of a cost of living adjustment to justify leaving our beloved life here, or whether we need to consider places that involve an even more drastic reduction in cost of living.

    - Are there high quality daycares and pre-schools in these areas that you recommend? I'm imagining places that are intimate, play-based, emphasize social-emotional learning and time in nature, reggio-emilia inspired, led by grounded, wise, loving humans, etc.

    - There are many other criteria I'd ideally like to factor into this process, but doing it outside in seems incredibly difficult. Are there people who live (or have lived) in these places that I can speak with to learn more about life there? Are you that person or do you know such people?

    Grateful for your wisdom here. It feels vulnerable to be sharing the details of these big life decisions with people I don't know, but I'm trusting in the loving care of this community and in the mysterious ripple effects of random actions.

    Look forward to hearing from you <3

    I had a house in Nevada City/Grass Valley for a long time. It's a beautiful place full of friendly people and a great lifestyle but it became impossible to live there and I finally had to sell it

    1. Smoke. I would never bring a toddler or baby to live here or anyone with asthma. There are wildfires all summer and fall and legal debris pile burns all winter and spring. The entire valley smells strongly of smoke almost all year round

    2. Electricity outages. This used to happen just during big wind storms in the winter. It now happens all summer and fall as well since PG&E shuts the power off due to fire danger. All the food in the fridge and freezer will need to be thrown out at least twice a month all year long unless you have invested in a large generator.

    3.Wildfire season. In the five years this has gone from feeling sort of exciting in a pioneer kind of way to terrifying. You need a go-bag in your car at all times and you need to park your car outside of the garage (in case of power outages) facing out for a fast escape. You need an app on your phone to alert you to new fire starts and you need to research and practice escape routes from any part of the foothills you might happen to be in. I'm not exaggerating. We completely stopped going out to the river or hiking in the summer because it can be impossible to get back to your car depending on where a fire breaks out.

    4. Insurance. Impossible to get. If you get lucky and find it the cost will be astronomical.

    You may be in for a culture shock if you’re moving from Berkeley to some of these places. There is very little diversity and lots of conservative thinkers. I have a friend who moved to Placerville and she loves it there, but she is a far more more conservative person than I am. When I went to visit the first thing I noticed was the Confederate  flags some of her neighbors were flying. My cousins (both medical professionals), live a little further down in El Dorado Hills and LOVE it there! You might want to check that out. Lots of young families and new build homes. It would be a little more costly than Placerville, but nothing like the cost of living in the Bay Area.

    Placer County Board of Supervisors is very conservative, as are the local boards of education there. We have friends in unincorporated Roseville who are embarrassed by their representatives as well as scared for their trans child. I would suggest researching the local elected officials to make sure you are comfortable with the local politics.

    Hi Mj, I grew up in Petaluma in Sonoma county - it was a magical childhood. We lived in a non-fussy neighborhood of homes with tons of young families with small kids. Schools were good quality, people were open minded and kind. Diversity isn't quite what you get here in Berkeley but still pretty good, and the downtown Petaluma area is really cute and fun. There are a string of towns up 101 that are absolutely lovely with cute downtowns and slightly more rural areas that would be more affordable. That said, these days the home prices between Berkeley and Petaluma don't look all that different - I'm not sure you'd really be getting the cost of living reduction you're looking for. But you might look in Santa Rosa, Sebastopol or surrounding areas and find something that would work for you. Besides the big fire they had up there a few years ago, it historically wasn't common to get fires up that way, and the weather is not as hot as places east and in the foothills. 

    Happy to talk more if helpful. Best of luck to your family - we're in Berkeley now too and really feeling the financial squeeze.

    I think that the cost of living will be less but remember salaries are lower than the Bay Area as well. Nevada city has gotten more expensive over the last several years. It’s an adorable town but I believe pretty conservative. I know lots of folks who have moved to parts of Sacramento or Davis and love it. More ethnically diverse and mixed as far as politics.  And yes the smoke is a real issue when there are fires- more so in auburn etc but can go as far as Sacramento. 

    I left Berkeley a few years ago and don’t miss it at all😀

    I live in Nevada City now after living in the Bay Area for 30 years (SF, Marin, Oakland). I have a 12 year old. It's not easy. We've been here 2 years now. The easy part is the financial: I've noted most everything is 50% cheaper. I enjoy the 50% cheaper hairstylists, but they're not as good. That's typical of things: cheaper, but not as good. Our house is fantastic, but fire insurance is money. In the two winters we've been here, we've lost electricity for two weeks both years and that's tough for WFH people. Even with a generator, wifi stays down that long. It really wears you down. The snow is beautiful and magical though. We can sled in our backyard. We live two miles up a hill from downtown. 

    The education doesn't compare to the Bay Area. Our child has struggled to make friends and we feel her education has gone downhill. The teachers at Seven Hills (grade 4-8) are lazy and no one seems to teach English here (her teacher didn't speak proper English and let kids wear their masks below their noses (2021) until he got COVID. Hm). Then we realized the only high school that will be suitable for us — SAEL: Sierra Academy of Expeditionary Learning (cool!) — pulls students from the three charters before Seven Hills. The three charters are 1. Grass Valley Charter 2. Yuba River Charter (Waldorf) and 3. Nevada City School of the Arts. The first two have an endless waitlist, so now we're at #3. So far, we're impressed with the Director's focus on full acceptance of all children (more liberal), but we're disappointed in the teaching. Again, no English and no help if your child is struggling. Lots of talk about it, but no action. Very disappointing as our daughter struggles with math and reading since the pandemic year. We're hoping so hard she can get into the good high school (we're less into sports, so not interested in the very large Nevada Union High and she's not an academic — Ghidotti High). 

    We also don't like the lack of food choices here. Don't expect more than a few delivery options. 

    Getting good medical is difficult. We drive to UC Davis in Sac over an hour away for quality care.

    What we love: the outdoor life. The Yuba River is wonderful with many swimming holes. Camping is amazing as we are so close to BLM and national forests. My daughter and her dad ski almost every weekend in winter. Lake Tahoe is 90 mins away and is also a fantastic place to swim and enjoy stunning beauty. The bike trails are beautiful! We luxuriate in the beauty of this county and never stop noticing it.

    Nevada City vs. Grass Valley. NC has cute shops and cafes and only that. No box stores or common chains (vs. GV). The streets close down for fun festivals all year. There are so few streets downtown, that means the whole downtown, very nice. Pride flags fly in NC, but the parade has been canceled due to death threats. People have ripped down Pride flags. Our child was bullied for befriending a bisexual girl. There are Trump followers in monster trucks with massive US flags and also sometimes profane flags trailing behind. That's a Grass Valley thing.

    No encampments in either town!! That has lifted our spirits on a daily basis vs. BA. 

    We are starting to question our move here for our daughter, but we're staying.

    I lived in Auburn and Loomis for 3 years (placer county) and also in Nevada city for two years. Culturally grass valley/Nevada city is similar to Berkeley, liberal, left wing, natural food-hippy culture. There is a lot of arts and culture that would please someone from The Bay. The prices up there are getting pretty expensive, especially as many people from the bay area moved there or bought second homes during the pandemic. There is the risk of fire, but this will be the case in any of the foothill communities, and Sonoma County. There isn’t really anywhere in California that you won’t be affected by wildfire or smoke. Especially in a more suburban or rural area. Another thing to keep in mind that the culture in Nevada county leans towards the fringe left. A lot of anti-vax types and conspiracists on both the right and left. There is also a pretty strong weed growing culture, though that has diminished in recent years. Placer County is quite conservative. I am a cis, straight white person, and observed a lot of open racism, far-right conspiracy theories, anti-semitism and Islamophobia. There are definitely liberal people as well, but you are not going to be in the same type of liberal bubble that you might find yourself in in the bay. There is a large Latino community in both of those counties but not a lot of diversity otherwise. There are a lot of really wonderful people in both places, there is east access to high-quality locally produced food, and amazing farmers markets. there is incredible natural beauty and outdoor recreation. In both places, I felt a strong sense of community, but keep in mind that even if you live centrally say in the center of Auburn or grass Valley many people live much more of a suburban or rural lifestyle, and I think it’s impossible to avoid a lot of driving. 

    We moved from Piedmont Ave, Oakland to Sonoma County in 2008. 

    We left in 2021, had enough of the wildfires and inept response from local authorities post-fire. Evacuations and power outages were ongoing for years after the big fire in 2017.

    Public schools are meh, we did private up to grade 6. Healthcare is subpar to SF, Oakland, Berkeley area.

    The things we liked about it, the natural beauty, were not enjoyable anymore due to drought seasons and contaminated waterways. 

    It was way too stressful to live 9 months of the year in refugee mode...we practiced packing our car!

    Petaluma seems to not get as many wildfires or evacuations,  do that could be a possibility. 

    All housing is expensive, insurance hard to come by too.

    After 30 years in the East Bay, we moved to Santa Rosa with our then middle & high school age kids a couple of yrs ago. We looked at Grass Valley/Nevada City due our love of the outdoors and proximity to skiing, but the conservative environment and lack of opportunities for the kids was a no-go. That county is the whitest in California and it shows. Our realtor & friends there tried to convince me that things have changed because there weren't as many confederate flags as when they moved there 15 or so years ago. That stuff doesn't just disappear, and instead they were replaced with Trump flags. I talked to a teacher from the public high school our kids would've gone to (very poorly rated btw) and he said that his students of Mexican descent complain of being called racial slurs on a daily basis.  I knew, especially as a BIPOC, that it was far beyond what I could tolerate to have a more affordable lifestyle. Also, the constant fire risk was a huge factor. Insurance is increasingly harder to get and/or astronomically expensive, and a fire would wipe you out, leaving us with nothing for old age or our kids' futures. Driving around looking at homes I couldn't fathom what it would be like to evacuate in the event of another fire like Paradise.

    Santa Rosa has been a great for us. We're less than an hour to the beach, and it's just a little bit longer than before to get to Tahoe. The East Bay & SF is only an hour away, so we go down frequently to see friends, go to museums and shows (2 people for carpool in North Bay instead of 3 helps!). We also get to regularly enjoy other great towns like Petaluma and Sonoma. The pace of life is calmer, and it is a food and culturally rich city. The bike path system is excellent, as are the many hiking trails, and the kids get around for free on the local bus system. There are museums, lots going on downtown, and great summer programs through the school and parks & rec department for the kids. This includes free camps, and work experience programs for teens. Politically it's still relatively progressive and blue voting. Sure, I've run into more conservatives than I did in the East Bay, and I have one neighbor with a blue lives matter flag, but there's a live and let vibe here. 

    The cost of living is considerably less as well, from everything from vet and dental services to getting your car fixed, not to mention housing.  There are some bad parts of Santa Rosa but otherwise it is so much safer here. It is a stark contrast to read NextDoor up here versus down there, for ex. there are significantly fewer break-ins and catalytic converter thefts (I've not seen one post about either in our neighborhood in the last 3 years). We've left power tools in the backseat of our car parked on the curb on a busy street w/out issue. 

    Drawbacks are that I do have to do more driving than before to shop and go out, and it's not feasible for my kids to get to school on their own. Also, their friends are more spread out since kids at school come from all over, but now that they're older they can take public transportation safely. I also miss the rich diversity of the East Bay pretty much everywhere you go, which isn't always the case here. There is also the risk of fires depending on your neighborhood, but there are some neighborhoods (for ex around the hospital) that almost never lose power or have to evacuate. 

  • I so appreciate all the wonderful information people share here. We are feeling priced out of the Bay Area (hoping to buy at some point) and over the traffic/congestion/noise/stress. We would like to move to a less crowded, more rural area with easier access to outdoor activities and more affordable home prices. We would also ideally like to be within a 3 (4 hour max) drive of the Bay Area as we have family here and my husband could keep his job and do a long distance commute down here for a few days every week or two. 

    We're thinking about Grass Valley or Placerville and surrounding areas but open to other ideas. We would love to be within a few minutes of a town of some size (not super rural) and in an area where there are other families. Our budget would probably be around 400k (max) and we would love to afford some property or at the very least have a yard where we can garden. 

    Does anyone have recommendations for other places/towns to look that might fit the bill, or things to consider as we dream about this possibility? I am aware that culturally it will be a big transition. What other considerations should we be thinking about? Does anyone have friends or family who live or have moved to these areas and have insights? One question I have would be about fire insurance and how that affects home prices + affordability, especially with fires getting worse every year. We would even be interested in realtor recommendations so we could potentially start a conversation with someone. Thanks so much. 

    I think wildfire risk period is a big consideration for the sierra suburbs, including smoke, panic traffic, etc. I would also think very carefully about access to high quality medical care, ability to age in place or in the community at large, higher education and career paths for your children's generation, political climate (especially at the County Board of Supervisors and town council levels), and racial/class diversity.

    Do yourself a favor and do a drive through Murphys, Angels Camp, and down to Sonora.    Well worth the day trip to look at that community.  

    I grew up in/near Placerville.  It's a great place to raise kids!  Schools are great- there is a great downtown with good restaurants, coffee, shopping to some of the best Bay Area neighborhoods.  On off hours, the drive is easily 2.5 hours.  EASY access to amazing outdoor activities.  Weather is great!!  It's def a different political scene than the Bay Area and less diverse but you can compensate for those things in other ways!  My family that still lives in the area hasn't had issues with insurance based on fire risk- even with recently purchased properties.  If you are living close to town, the risk is probably equal to many parts of the Bay Area/North Bay.  Also, easy access to very good healthcare- locally and reasonably close to UC Davis for specialty care. Happy to answer any other questions.  

    Grass Valley and Placerville are great communities; I've never lived in either but have spent time there and know people who've loved living there. From what I understand they are both close-knit and friendly towns with their own character and also with a regular influx of visitors from northern California's larger metro areas. Fire risk is very real, as it is in the North Bay. However, the cost of living as you've noted is much lower and you have proximity to the Sacramento area, which has a lot to offer, as well as tremendous outdoor opportunities. Small-town living has its ups and downs and can be a wonderful environment in which to grow up. The only real downside I'll mention is that is gets hot - really hot - in the foothills, but that may be fine for you. Good luck.

    Chico.  A River Runs Through It

    My son moved his family to Chico about two years ago. He says it is like the Berkeley he grew up in in the nineteen sicties. Chido is 180 miles, about 2 1/2 hour drive. I take 89, to 505, toHwy 5, and shoot across the Central Valley at Willows. Chico is a college town and a business center of the North Valley. Chico has North State Public Radio, a viable downtown near the university, and shopping malls on the outskirts. Schools are good, summers are HOT, but winters are mild.  On hot summer afternoons few people are out; they are indoors with air conditioning, at the mall with air conditioning, or at the river.

    People are friendly. There is the BEST civic park in the world-Bidwell Park, along the river which runs through the center of town. Good hospitals and doctors. Enroe Medical Center is in the center of town.

    My grandtwins live there, so I visit at least once a month. Write if you have any specific questions.

    Fire insurance is absolutely something you'd want to consider.  Call up big insurers like State Farm or AAA and get quotes for some of the addresses of places you see for-sale that you'd consider.  I have a friend whose mother cannot get fire insurance except through the state and the cost is astronomical - over $25K/year - way beyond Bay Area property taxes.

    Climate/culture is another, and what keeps us in the area vs. further out.  We both grew up in the rural midwest.  My family was well-educated and liberal in a closed-minded, conservative place.  It was very hard to be at friends' homes and hear their parents disparage those who did not speak English, blame immigrants and people of color for "ruining" the country, inappropriate comments about welfare mothers, etc.  These comments tend to be rooted in fear for their own existence, safe norms, and disappearing jobs rather than true malice, but it's harmful none the less.  My sister and I moved far away for college and never came back.  I would also question the quality of education you'll get.  I never got a quality math education, my husband never got a quality education in writing, grammar, etc.  The teachers' salaries and school budgets tend to be low, private schools are essentially non-existent, and enrichment programs beyond sports are scant.  If your kids take music lessons, are highly engaged in sports outside the big ones, or you enjoy the cultural elements of life here (ability to get other types of cuisine at the grocery), you may not be able to find it there. 

    I spend part of each year in Grass Valley/Nevada City. It's a beautiful and friendly place but it's true that it's different culturally. There are many Bay Area residents who own vacation homes there and there is also a very large permanent population of hard-working blue-collar residents who don't particularly love seeing all the Teslas in their local Safeway parking lot. The two different groups get along on the surface but I can always feel the underlying tension. 

    Don't know about fire insurance but I do know homes turn over all year long so people must be getting fire insurance from somewhere. I'm sure your realtor can help you with that.

    There are GREAT schools there, both public and private. And it's a small enough place that the teenagers (and even younger kids) are free to run around town without getting into trouble. Also, the river, skiing, mountain biking: I don't know any kids who don't love living there.

    It's an easy two hour drive from the Bay Area if you leave at 6am. Later than that on a weekday and you're going to run into the Sacramento commute which will add another 30-60 minutes.

    Also, fyi—if you have asthma or similar problems, you should be aware that the area has some air quality problems. Most homes burn wood all winter for heat (or ambience) and almost everyone just outside city limits burns their yard debris on every single legal burn day. Its smells smoky ALL the time regardless of forest fires.

    Hi- My sister lives in the Nevada City/Grass Valley area and I just helped her sell her home. We had a super realtor--Mimi Simmons--she's 5th generation in the area and knows everything/everyone. I believe you could find a house for $400K in the area, though likely not walking distance to either Nevada City or Grass Valley, but probably within a couple of miles. Both towns are quite charming and have a decent number of restaurants and services. I don't know about schools, but I do think you'd find it a quieter life, easy to get outside and I think a nice community. That said, the area attracts a lot of hippies/quirky birds so sometimes things feel a bit more 'half-baked' / less buttoned up than I'm used to. There are also a lot of marijuana growers/some meth issues, so that's something to be aware of, especially when purchasing a home. Realistically the drive is about 3-3.5 hours from the eastbay w/o traffic. Fire is a huge issue and fire insurance options extremely limited. Most of the private insurers have left the area and you have to go with Cal Fire. My sisters insurance jumped from $2200 to $3600 last year, and this is only for fire coverage, not liability or other coverage. If you'd like to discuss more the moderator is welcome to share my contact. Good luck!

     I am moving to a new cohousing community for the same reasons. We chose this for long term sustainability, not in the middle of fire zones, and great neighbors.
    Fair Oaks EcoHousing has one home left, a 2-story 2+ bedroom townhome. Features include: Energy-efficient design, with eco-friendly construction and high-quality fixtures and finishes.Large windows, allowing natural light to penetrate deep into the home and make rooms feel light and spacious. Open design for living and dining area.Modern kitchen with ample storage and counter space, Upstairs deck above front porch, Two upstairs bedrooms, a Plus" room, ideal for a home office, craft room, or playroomUpstairs and downstairs bathrooms, A pedestrian-friendly village for residents of all ages with a centrally-located multi room clubhouse, some meal sharing, pool, spa, and garden close to Fair Oaks Village and the American River Parkway, with nearby dining and entertainment options, plus easy access to the freeway. Waldorf school and college is up the street. Contact Marty at mmaskall [at] gmail.com or 916-967-2472

    Hi,

    Have you considered splitting the difference and living around Sacramento? The price and amenities seem right for what you've listed. 

    On a different note, I have a friend who grew up in Meyers, south of Lake Tahoe and seemed to have a pretty good life growing up there. So many beautiful trails and lakes so close! Not far from Reno if you need an airport closer than SFO. 

    Good luck!

    I've looked into moving to Nevada City, which I really love. One issue that came to my attention was air quality. Apparently smog gets blown up from lower altitudes and settles in the valley there.

    Do you like Yosemite. I worked with a guy who lives in Groveland and commuted to the Bay Area.  Another area you might want to take a look at would be around Jackson, Pioneer and Volcano.  You could easily buy a house for under $400k with a lot of land.  If you want to be a little closer to the Bay Area you might want to take a look in the Delta.  I have 3 co-worker who live out that way. Towns like Rio Vista, Isleton, Walnut, Bethel Island, etc.  Another place you might want to check out is Mariposa, Sonora and Twain Harte. We have friends and co-workers who have all moved to several of those areas.

    I don't blame you for wanting to do this.  Something I've been considering as well for the same reasons you've given. 

    We left the Bay Area last November and have never been happier.  There is nothing we miss about Oakland.  We lie when we people ask.  We say we miss things like Berkeley Bowl to protect their feelings.  Some of our friends feel like they can't leave and I don't see the point in making them feel worse.   But the truth is the upside to getting out of the pressure cooker is indescribable.  Clean air, no more stress, peace.  We were like you - wanted to raise our children outdoors.   We looked at Grass Valley, Redding, Auburn and Nevada City.  They all have wonderful places to ride bikes which is our top concern.  I don't want to say where we ended up, but we left California for good.   I feel like I'm living in a postcard.  We have our own well.  Our living expenses were cut 60% and now we can easily afford to have one parent SAH.  Quarantine life is a breeze because it's not much different than normal day-to-day.

    One thing to beware of (or not, depending on your political affiliation) is that many of the communities listed above are situated outside the liberal political bubble of the Bay Area, i.e., you're going to be dealing with a lot of Trump voters. Nevada City and Grass Valley, the towns, are reasonably liberal, but the minute you get into the outlying communities you could see, I kid you not, Confederate flags on the backs of trucks.

    I would have a number of conversations on bar stools with locals before you make a move. If you hear things that freeze your blood, look elsewhere!