Vasectomy revision help/complications/doc needed

Hi parents, 

My husband got a vasectomy in December and I don’t think it healed right. To be blunt- after orgasm it feels about 40% how it used to. Basically no “euphoric” feeling afterwards. No satisfaction after ejaculating. It also feels like there’s urine left after using the restroom in general. 

Our Kaiser doctor was dismissive when he was seen about the concern. Said that my husband has body image issues and should stretch more. Ridiculous. 

Our sex life isn’t the same and I’m worried this isn’t fixable. Has anyone been in this scenario and care to lend some advice and a doctor that would be able to help? Willing to go anywhere and pay out of pocket. It’s so hard to see my husband like this. 

Thanks!