Caring for a Disabled Adult

You can look into SSI/SSDI or other services but you would have to better communicate some details about the whole thing & that requires some updated brain scans to back up the claim. The TBI doesn’t help, but the emotional/mental health issues sound traumatic for all involved. No one is perfect but your brother sounds like he is functioning when things go as expected & has outbursts when they don’t.  He’s defensively in “fight” mode & its really because he’s struggling to adjust to external unknowns/changes.  He struggles to self-regulate.  Does he remember things that have upset you & others?  He may disassociate from the moments he is overwhelmed.  Has he had any therapy?

Good Luck!

I don’t know the answer to your question about getting disability for an old injury, but I’d highly recommend getting a disability attorney. They are generally paid a percentage from the proceeds of the initial benefit payment (a back payment for the months from initial application till disability is awarded). Almost everyone is denied on the initial application, and the system is very complicated. An attorney can help your brother request his old medical records if they’re still available and advise him about his testimony in the appeal hearing. Social Security will have him go through an evaluation, too, and the attorney will be helpful regarding that. Going through this right now with a family member. Hope it all works out.

Yes he absolutely can apply and with recent medical documentation would probably get it. Things to remember is that the process can take a very long time but payments will be back dated to when the application was submitted. Considering that he hasn't had steady work he will need to about for SSI not DI because it isn't based on work credits. Hard part in all of this is that he has to be an active participant. I was a social worker and helped people with this type of thing and with patience it will happen.

Here is my rudimentary understanding of this. If your brother currently has a permanent disability that prevents him from working then it does not matter how long ago his initial injury occurred. I think you are confusing this with temporary disability which is a state benefit that you get while you are recovering from an injury or illness but you intend to return to work. There are two federal benefit programs for permanent disability, SSDI and SSI.  To qualify for SSDI you have to have paid into social security for a certain number of quarters. Your brother's work history may not qualify him. SSI is a needs based benefit and it doesn't matter if you have never worked at all. The hardest part is qualifying, especially for SSI. He has to have the proper medical documentation and do the application process perfectly or it will get rejected, although he can appeal. I would recommend consulting a lawyer who specializes in Social Security Disability. It is worth it to invest up front to secure benefits which could last his entire life and also qualify him for Medicare and food stamps as well as a monthly check.

Yes, it’s possible. It’s not the date of injury that matters, it’s his current ability to work. That said it’s notoriously hard to get social security disability approved. First step is to see his doctor & see if they will support a disability claim.  Having multiple diagnoses and specialists (eg pcp, neurology, psych) helps. Next get the forms from social security disability. Be patient, expect to be denied and appeal twice. If he’s currently working at all, it will be denied. 

Try calling Disability Rights CA for more info. They may be able to point you in the right direction incase legal representation will be needed. 

I dont think it matters when or how he his mental health issues started, i think it matters if he is physically/ mentally capable of working right now. My sister has BPD and always had trouble holding jobs and finally after working with a therapist for years was able to decide that she will not be working anymore and got on disability. I think he just has to apply and have his doctor or therapist say he is unable to work and give his diagnoses and then they decide if he can get disability.

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I think it is possible. You could contact the Department of Rehabilitation however they usually want to help with job retraining I believe. On the Ed Roberts campus /next to Ashby Bart has a lot of disabilty rights advocates like the center for independent living. You could likely find some attorneys who will help him get disability. That was not a straight answer but there are many non-profits that will help with this. It will be a process to get evaluated and show he has a disabilty that limits him.  Hope that is a start if you haven't already found more resources. 

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He should be able to get assistance.

First, if you haven't already, your brother should see a doctor and get documentation that he is unable to work due to a past TBI. 

I have a situation which is a little different from yours, but I was able to help get a family member, whose mental health issues were undiagnosed until recently, SSI and Medi-Cal benefits.  My aunt has a college degree, but has never been able to hold a job. For all of her life, she lived with my grandparents who supported her. 

Once my grandparents passed away, she was left some inheritance money  which she started spending at an alarming speed.  She was also experiencing a lot of anxiety and paranoia. I was able to get her to see a doctor and she was diagnosed with a mental illness.  I was encouraged to contact a special needs attorney to help plan financially for her future. This was very helpful. She was able to receive Medi-Cal, Cal-Fresh and money from SSI. (She hadn't worked long enough to qualify for disability) This made all the difference for her and her quality of life. Our special needs attorney was Julie at Horizon Law in San Ramon. She was wonderful and helped up a lot. BUT, Before you spend money on a special needs attorney, you might try having your brother call the disability office and just see what they say.

One more thought for the future....if you parents are leaving you and your brother an inheritance (including their house), they might want to talk with a special needs attorney so if won't  affect your brother's government benefits (if he's able to receive them).

First is he willing to explore that option? Has he been evaluated by a doctor and Psychiatrist re these issues? Medical disability requires a condition that limits patient ability to maintain employment and the bar is usually pretty high even when the pts primary MDs support the claim. The Disability evaluation may use that info but still makes an independent determination based on available data. Sounds like his case requires a validated disabling Neurological or Psychiatric diagnosis whether or not a result of the TBI. Good luck to your brother and family.

I have heard of such a problem.  My aunt had an aneurysm that she refused to repair at first because she was pregnant.  So she had it repaired but later than optimal.  She was okay for awhile, could drive a car even.  But at some youngish age, she stopped being able to talk well and walk, and they took her to the Mayo Clinic but they couldn't really find anything treatable.  So that is a little bit like your brother.  I'm sorry, and hope he gets disability.